In Virginia, a friend/aquaintance of my boyfriend's was kicked out of his residence for violation of rules, so he had nowhere to go. Initially, it was supposed to be for 72 hours, then he could apply to go back to his previous residence. When he reapplied, they refused to let him return. I told him "you can stay here until you can get on your feet, we won't throw you out in the street". Well, it has been four months now. Three of which he did nothing at all to help himself. Mar 1, I told him that we all had to be out before Apr 1, I am going to rent the house out. I have a new tenant, just waiting for the house to be empty. I own the house.
Here's the real problem. I want him out NOW! He has disrespected me more times than I can count. Can I just throw him out?
1) He has never paid rent. The first two weeks or so, he helped out with groceries and the like. I feel we have generously paid him back!
2) First problem: I was out one day for doctor appt's or something and when I returned, I opened my front door and the first thing I saw was hard core pornography being played on the TV in the living room (he has TV, VCR, and DVD with cable, that I supply.
3) He has entered our bedroom in the middle of the night to turn down our TV, because it was too loud...
4) I originally told him that the only thing he'd have to help out with was groceries...he hasn't contributed anything and he eats more that the three of us combined. Like it's his last meal or something.
5) We can't prove it, but we have very strong suspicions that he has stolen narcotics, muscle relaxers, and Zanex from us.
6) He runs around the house at night in open fly boxers.
7) The last thing I can think of right now, is he "threatened" my boyfriend! There's no way that was a physical threat, my b/f could crush him, but we are afraid he will try to cause legal problems for us or cause damage to our tires, cars, or the house itself.
With the threat, can I just kick him out for the disruptive behavior? He has been warned! I can't stomach being kind-hearted for another minute!

