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    Default Re: Changing My Son's Last Name To Mine - His Father Is In Prison

    u mean hire an attorney ater he gets out right? he went to prison before i became preg for selling drugs. we got together seems like a few months after that (does not look good on my part) but then went to jail for 8 months for sexual assualt on 2 separate cases. right when he went to jail i found out i was pregnant. he was released because the cases were dropped.i didnt talk to him that entire time. he came around for our sons birth , i guess post partum allowed me to do that. but then he was arrested for drug charges again. he was on parole so he will be going to prison for up to 8 years. i know some of these things dont look good on my part. im now going to start school here taking my basics but soon after want to major in phycology.

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    u mean hire an attorney ater he gets out right? he went to prison before i became preg for selling drugs. we got together seems like a few months after that (does not look good on my part) but then went to jail for 8 months for sexual assualt on 2 separate cases. right when he went to jail i found out i was pregnant. he was released because the cases were dropped.i didnt talk to him that entire time. he came around for our sons birth , i guess post partum allowed me to do that. but then he was arrested for drug charges again. he was on parole so he will be going to prison for up to 8 years. i know some of these things dont look good on my part. im now going to start school here taking my basics but soon after want to major in phycology.
    No. I mean he can hire an attorney FROM prison to represent him in court. He doesn't have to be in court at all.

    Considering you were aware of his "history" BEFORE you got pregnant, gave birth and voluntarily named your child HIS LAST NAME...Why do you suppose a Judge will change it now? Don't get me wrong...s/he could deem it in the child's best interest...But s/he may not. I don't believe his criminal history will be a factor...It wasn't a factor for you a year ago.

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    Default Re: Changing My Son's Last Name To Mine - His Father Is In Prison

    His expected long-term absence from the child's life, though, is a factor the court can consider.

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    Default Re: Changing My Son's Last Name To Mine - His Father Is In Prison

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    His expected long-term absence from the child's life, though, is a factor the court can consider.
    I agree... That would be a consideration. But the Judge may believe that is a foreseeable consequence of choosing a criminal for a father. I think that the OP would have to prove HOW having this man last name is harmful to the child and how the child life would be better for a change in name.

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    Default Re: Changing My Son's Last Name To Mine - His Father Is In Prison

    I've yet to see a judge say something like, "I won't order a name change for this child because you chose to have a relationship with a criminal."

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    I've yet to see a judge say something like, "I won't order a name change for this child because you chose to have a relationship with a criminal."
    lol!! Neither have I...

    But, based on the OP's reasons for a name change, there is no new, compelling reason for the name to BE changed.

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    Default Re: Changing My Son's Last Name To Mine - His Father Is In Prison

    i was a lil stupid 2 years ago. he is one of the reasons i want to major in phycology and criminal law (that and im into it lol) . i want to plan to take this court a year or so from now. have it shown that i turned my life around for my kids and myself. he will still be in prison.

    one thing that also concerns me is that he is on child support yet i dont want him in our lives, so i believe my son should have my last name. (he wont sign his rights overand he has told me that he plans to sell cocaine once hes out.
    can that really happen? him be on child support, get my sons last name changed, and have no visitation rights? (thats what the court ordered. no visitation till i as the MANAGING CONSERVATOR agree its safe.

    (his last name is very uniqe and only his family has it here.small town. everyone that knows my sons name quickly relized his father is going to prison for drugs. (i was not with or around him while doing it.)

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