
Quoting
Freyja
I am sorry, like I say, it is a long and painful story of the most insidious and covert, passive-aggressive abuse that you can find. Here it is again, in a nutshell:
- Husband and I living in my country, he departs to Florida with the excuse that he would solve paperwork and get financial stability, in order for me to join him upon completion of my studies. Our relationship as husband and wife continues to go on at distance, after a marriage of over 10 years.
- One day, out of the blue, I had to find through social media that he had been involved in an adulterous relationship with some forgettable barracks strumpet. He never talks to me again, and all I get are derogatory and threatening messages from the homewrecker.
- I made it back to America, but for obvious reasons CANNOT go to Florida, where my husband is cohabiting with her mistress and her bastards of a thousand fathers. I came to Utah instead, where I had good friends and an outstanding support group.
- Through some deceptive and immoral "lawyer", who convinces me that I HAVE to file for divorce, and promises over and over again that by doing so he will bring my husband to Utah, he gets papers served in Florida. Husband has never set foot in Utah.
- Husband replies by hiring a lawyer in Utah, but never shows up in this state.
- Mediation agreement, pushed by the worthless scoundrel I hired, gets signed, and divorce gets finalized in Utah. Husband never shows up, and his lawyer signs the mediation agreement on his name.
- Husband, skank and multifathered offspring move to Iowa. Husband disobeys the Court orders and stops paying what the mediation agreement says.
Now, again, question: is this mediation agreement enforceable, even valid (here's where PERSONAL jurisdiction (no CASE jurisdiction) comes to play. And if it is, where should it be enforceable, in Utah, or in Iowa, where ex-husband lives?
Is it clear now?
Thanks again.