There were very high emotions at the time and she had claimed I was abusive for no reason at all. Lord, how I wish this all was fiction!
Which brings me to try to attempt to defend my character and proclaim that I have gone as far as to beging shopping for a residence in three different states in the possibility that relocation may be benificial. I'm looking at focusing on raising a child on my own if things go a certain way, or as mentioned, trying to mitigate damages in the department of child support, if indeed the wind blows in that direction...
I don't wish to die from stress but, yes it is hard to juggle all of this mentally and emotionally as I haven't much of a support group handy.
That said, back to the meat of the issue, I think I need to clarify that I acknowledge that I currently have zero rights. Kinda figured that, and I think she could be banking on that as well. So, my current goal is to be ready to provide any and as much information needed at the moment needed: Getting an attorney chosen, perhaps primed, if you will, because I understand that I cannot possibly be rushed at a moments notice to hire, inform, and execute any offense or defense on the same day.
How can I even know if she gives birth? I can't but, I would like to be ready for that day...Perhaps an outline of the actual process and/or procedure? Certain actions that can take now to be a better father, especially-crucially even in the eyes of whomever will be making determinations like judges, cps, ect...
Again, thank you all for your insights and your concise answers...