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Can you blame them? Given what they used to do and what some of their clientele were like, they have earned a little paranoia. They have lots of options when they are in the club working but once they are on the street, it is just them.

This could very well show up in a background check, depending on the field of work and the type of check done, even if it's not a criminal order. You need an attorney to help you deal with this. Your passion, for lack of a better word, in this thread would indicate you would not do well in court.
You're damn right I'm passionate. I'm a father now. I want to set a good example for my child. So, naturally, I want to try and get this RO vacated. Now, of course, my daughter won't ever find out, but still. It's the principle. I just don't see the point in her doing this. We live in the same city. What am I supposed to do? Call ahead to every place that I go and see if she is there? I have NEVER bothered this girl. Heck, I don't have time to go stalk and terrorize someone! I can understand ex-strippers being paranoid. But, not EVERY former customer of theirs is out to get them. Not to mention, once a certain amount of time goes by, people forget them. Any dude that is going to stalk a dancer is more likely to go after a current one anyway. Answer me this, if you don't mind. If you were "terrified" and "in mortal fear" of someone, and you thought that you spotted them, would you then walk up to them so as to verify that that was in fact them? Or would you continue on your way?