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    Default Re: How to Defend Yourself Against a False Allegation of Stalking and Restraining Ord

    Why did you say hi to her when you accidentally saw her in the parking lot? And when she looked at you "piercingly" why did you then ask her if she was all right?

    Personally, if I had a huge fight with someone and then several years later pressed that someone to converse with me in a parking lot, after said someone had let me know several times that she absolutely did not want to have any conversations with me, I would not have been surprised to have a restraining order put on me.

    Just sayin'

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    Thanks. I am going tomorrow to talk with an attorney. Also, I would be interested to know if I could press any type of charges against her for making these false allegations.
    What false allegations? She said stuff to you - she is legally allowed to say whatever she wants to you! If she'd said them to the police, or your friends, or your employer...then you might have a case...but she said them to you, and only you. (Yes, I know you want to use what she said to you and only you as something to negate her RO, but that won't work.)

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    Default Re: How to Defend Yourself Against a False Allegation of Stalking and Restraining Ord

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    Why did you say hi to her when you accidentally saw her in the parking lot? And when she looked at you "piercingly" why did you then ask her if she was all right?

    Personally, if I had a huge fight with someone and then several years later pressed that someone to converse with me in a parking lot, after said someone had let me know several times that she absolutely did not want to have any conversations with me, I would not have been surprised to have a restraining order put on me.

    Just sayin'



    What false allegations? She said stuff to you - she is legally allowed to say whatever she wants to you! If she'd said them to the police, or your friends, or your employer...then you might have a case...but she said them to you, and only you. (Yes, I know you want to use what she said to you and only you as something to negate her RO, but that won't work.)
    Wait. So...you think that me running into her TWICE over the course of a seven and a half year period constitutes stalking?? That doesn't make any sense. As to why I said "hi" and asked her if she was "doing alright" well, it was an awkward situation. I may not have explained that very well. I was at MY car, hanging up my daughter's ballet costume on the hook just inside the back door. I look up and there SHE is. Looking at me with a blank expression on her face. So, I just said "hi". That's whe she glared. To be honest, that made me a little nervous. So, I said "you been doing alright?". I really just wanted to get out of there. In retrospect, I probably just played right into her hands. Instead of just getting into my car and driving away, I stood there and watched her have a meltdown. See, she approached me and accused me of stalking her. This is a personal issue she has with me. I made her mad years ago when I was her client. And, yes, she HAS said those things to the police and to friends of mine. Trust me, she has said a lot to a lot of people. Where the hell did you get that she had only said those things to me?? I really don't get why you are posting this crap. And also, I never said that we had a "huge fight". She is the one who said that. I said we had an argument. There is a difference. Look, I just don't want a criminal record. If this won't cause me to have a record, then I'll just leave it be. I'm not worried about violating the RO. Like I have already stated, her and I have seen each other TWICE since late 2009. So, what does that average out to? I'm no mathematician, but that's like once every 3 and a half to 4 years. So, the odds of yet another chance encounter are VERY low. Dude, my child comes first in my life now. Not some ex-stripper who I was once a customer of. This crazy girl is flattering herself. But, what do you expect from someone who once stripped for a living?

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