Ok, however I had already mentioned that I am allowed a roommate, I just couldn't form a rental agreement, which seems different than a roommate agreement. I was just trying to double check what I've been learning.
Ok, however I had already mentioned that I am allowed a roommate, I just couldn't form a rental agreement, which seems different than a roommate agreement. I was just trying to double check what I've been learning.
Rental agreements are completely different from roommate agreements. Rental agreements are about how much rent is to be paid by the tenant (your prospective "roommate") to the landlord (you). Roommate agreements are about who does what (e.g., household chores, meal preparation etc.) during the term of the rental agreement.
Your condo by-laws allow you to have another person living in your condo with you, as long as you don't charge that person any rent. And (obviously) if you're not charging your roommate rent, you therefore cannot have a rental agreement. (No rent = no rental agreement.)
So if you want to have a tenant (i.e., someone who pays rent to you) in your condo, a roommate agreement will not cover the situation. You will also be liable for any penalties (fines, liens, etc.) that the condo board applies to you for breaking the condo by-laws.
Finally, yes the condo by-laws are binding and enforceable. You agreed to them when you bought the condo.
Understand this. You don't have to sign a contract to have a contract. The minute your "roommate" hands you money (or anything of value) in exchange for living there, no matter how you spin it, he/she is your "tenant" and you are his/her "landlord" and you have a "rental agreement" (contract).
Granted, it's an informal (oral) contract but the upshot is that you are still renting out part of your condo and (trust me on this) any roommate you find will expect that the arrangement (again, no matter how you spin it) will be governed by applicable landlord tenant law.
Another thing: when your roommate starts parking his/her car in the HOA parking areas and uses his/her key to access HOA facilities, questions will be raised and that board member will have amnesia about the statement that you can have a roommate.
I also suggest you google something like "roommate horror stories" and learn why it's an incredibly bad idea to have one.
The board member doesn't need to have amnesia. While he/she told OP she could have a roommate, he/she qualified this by also saying that OP could not charge rent to said roommate.*
(There are plenty of possible situations where OP might get a roommate and not charge rent - if she invites her child/parent/sibling/BF to come live with her, for example. I have a friend who invited her sister to live with her for six months after sister went through an incredibly abusive spousal relationship and acrimonious divorce - violence and stalking etc., the whole nine yards - so that sister could get a job, a place of her own, and back on her feet again. This was in no way a landlord-tenant relationship. I think OP's condo board is trying to allow the residents to have that sort of freedom, while at the same time preventing a whole lot of stranger tenants from constantly moving in/out of the building.)
*And this is the core of OP's problem. The only reason she wants a roommate is so that she can charge rent, and because this would be in violation of the condo by-laws, she's SOL unless she's willing to be responsible for whatever penalties the board levies upon her for violating the by-laws.