I don't work here any more and my actual job is keeping me hella busy right now, so.

Where in the world did you ever get the idea that you could wash your hands of your responsibility to the child you created? She is your responsibility until she turns 18. If she has your...

You have the right to keep your cat out of his yard.

Seriously??

I love cats, I've had many over the years. They've never been allowed to roam freely. My dogs love cats, too. THEIR cats,...

It doesn't say they can't. My job description doesn't say I'm allowed to hang up on customers who scream at me, but it doesn't say I can't, either. That's got nothing to do with whether it's...

Laugh at him, ignore him, and carry on about your life. When your lease is up, move out.



No, he does not. It is your home as much as his, given that you are a signatory to the lease.

Your mother has complete control over you, because you are her child.

YOU have complete control over your daughter, because she is YOUR child.

That said, you'd do well to learn the Art of...

Something in writing, usually. But again, it's not illegal for POs to talk to their charges this way.

I am so very sorry for your loss. My youngest son is 19, and I would be devastated to lose him.

Alas, what you describe seems to be pretty common practice among POs who believe in "scared...

It is not.

You have the legal right to pull your head out and LEAVE.

Sure, yes, technically he needs to evict you if he wants you out. But why do you insist on forcing this, when he's sexually abusive?
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MIL, who was an RN for 40 years, tells me that if she had pulled a stunt like that, she would have lost her license - regardless of who she pulled that stunt on.



Unless she had explicit...

Oh, hell, I know THAT from experience. My parents tried to kill me when I was 12. Believe me, I'm WELL aware that child abuse happens, and still have the scars from my brain surgery if I should...

Define "non-professional".

How do you know that your co-workers are getting the time off with pay?

In any case, yes, you can be required to take the time without pay for doctor visits.

Reasons why CPS has been called on me:

-- I'm not Christian. Therefore, I must practice Satanic rituals. Plus, it's illegal not to be Christian, said the complaint. (Caseworker laughed so hard,...

No. Let's you shut up. I don't have time to babysit you.

Define "very evil". Beats him with a belt? Evil. Burns him with cigarettes? Evil. Yells at him to do his homework, clean his room, and take out the trash or he's grounded? Not so much.


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No incentive at all. You're lucky they haven't terminated your charging privileges. Telling them "I spend a lot of money there!" after you've been busted for stealing isn't likely to elicit much...

Stop that. Modern Germany is much more progressive than the backwater you live in.

There are laws that landlords must comply with if they intend to be landlords. This is true in every...

Why did you give them guardianship of your child?

If this is not court ordered, go pick your child up and take her home.

In the original title.

Yes you are. You've been very clear about that, and in this very thread.

Go away, you're making too much work for Aaron and me.

OK, let's back up a little.

Did you sign an acknowledgement of paternity? Were you found to be the father via a court ordered DNA test? What verification exists of your biological and legal...

Aww, you're adorable.

No, that's not how it works. Dad's visitation time has been set by COURT ORDER. That means it is set in stone, and no action that you can take will change it. Dad will...

What do you want us to do about it?