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  1. Enforcing Custody Orders: Re: Extracurricular Activities During Parenting Time

    My daughter told her mother she didn't want to play sports as well, because she knew her mother didn't like it. Her mother was 100 percent convinced that daughter hated it and that it was all a...
  2. Custody and Visitation Issues: Re: Regaining Primary Custody from Sons Father, He Has Temporary Custody

    Would you agree to what you want dad to have for yourself? Would you be okay with every other weekend plus a week day? I'm not sure why you think he should be okay with that.

    At this point he...
  3. Modification of Custody: Re: Will I Get My Son Back

    What does your current order actually say about how much time each of you are supposed to have? Are you following it?
  4. Modification of Custody: Re: Will I Get My Son Back

    The "how long has it been" question is extremely important. Since the beginning of the school year? That's 6 or 7 months. You should have done something before now.

    And I'm confused why you...
  5. Establishing an Order: Re: Coming Up with a Workable Visitation Plan

    Dad needs to file for what he wants, spelling out dates and times very clearly, including what happens if he is late to pick up for some reason. Make things as explicit as possible to prevent mom...
  6. Enforcing Custody Orders: Re: Is a Guardian ad Litem Allowed to Give Advice to One Parent

    What kind of advice?

    When my case was still open I occasionally sought the opinion of the GAL on certain issues. It didn't seem out of the ordinary to do so.
  7. Establishing an Order: Re: Custodial Parent Not Keeping Up on Medical Needs

    Not all states seek reimbursement from the ncp for all benefits. Here in Virginia, they seek reimbursement for tanf but not snap/ebt nor medical. Does New Jersey?
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    Modification of Custody: Re: Changing Parenting Days

    I think you have some legitimate issues that are worthy of making some kind of provisions to alleviate the issues. However, since it's only six months into a new order, a judge may or may not be...
  9. Modification of Custody: Re: Get My Daughter Back

    Your rights were terminated or you signed over custody?

    Your options, if any, depend greatly on exactly what occurred.
  10. Establishing an Order: Re: What's the Definition of "School Age" in a Custody Order

    According to op, the order says that she has the child on Thursday and Friday once he is school age. She currently doesn't have the child at all during the week. Neither time share says mom is or...
  11. Establishing an Order: Re: What's the Definition of "School Age" in a Custody Order

    I think we're putting the cart before the horse here discussing how mom should file for support when she's not the custodial parent - neither before nor after the child "becomes school age," whenever...
  12. Enforcing Custody Orders: Re: Right of First Refusal During Uninterrupted Parent Time

    Is the child not sleeping for most or perhaps all of this time period?
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    Establishing an Order: Re: Am I a "Mentally Unfit" Parent

    I'm not backseating anything, but thanks.

    Anxiety was the only diagnosis each had, save the third, who also has depression struggles. My mother was prescribed medication that she never took. ...
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    Establishing an Order: Re: Am I a "Mentally Unfit" Parent

    I've known three people closely in my life with anxiety disorders, and two were physically and verbally abusive. One was my mother. I don't know if there are statistics on these types of things, ...
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    Enforcing Custody Orders: Re: What is Primary Residential Custody

    The judge wrote this order? It's terribly written. Your son needs to be careful in the future - I foresee a lot of potential problems. Sounds like he's likely going to have to be back in the...
  16. Modification of Custody: Re: How Can a Father Get Full Custody of His Daughter

    Your best strategy at this point may be to sweet talk mom into leaving the child with you more often - make it very convenient for her to unload the child on you instead of someone else as much as...
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    Custody and Visitation Issues: Re: Visitation in an Unhealthy Environment

    Step-dad,

    First things first: you need to understand that, while there are many issues here, half of them are yours. A lot of the things that you/mom have done are NOT okay.

    And the absolute...
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    Modification of Custody: Re: Are Parenting Coordinators Beneficial

    I would find a better site than liz library to peruse.

    What anecdotal stories I've heard about parenting coordinators haven't been great, though no personal experience. However, it wouldn't...
  19. Modification of Support: Re: Paternity Test/ First Time in Court

    Snark? Not at all. Not sure why you would say that. Here's a bit of discussion on the matter. It says basically what I've said, and adds that the ncp must argue against the presumptive full amount...
  20. Modification of Support: Re: Child Support Modification for a Half-Time Dad

    I believe that New York automatically makes whichever parent earns more the ncp in a 50-50 situation, with full child support order to the cp.

    Though you should look it up to make sure.
  21. Collection and Enforcement: Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

    I didn't say punishment was inappropriate at all. I don't think my words indicate such either. Just that I don't think in terms of that. Not that we're children, but I think it is a bit similar...
  22. Collection and Enforcement: Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

    I'm not quite sure what you're saying here.
  23. Collection and Enforcement: Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

    Guess I just don't think in terms of "punishment" for the other parent.
  24. Collection and Enforcement: Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

    The state does as much as they can with the funding they have. Sure, it's partly their responsibility to enforce and collect support. But it's also partly on us as parents to share some...
  25. Collection and Enforcement: Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

    Presumptuous?

    You can't go telling the department of transportation that you want them to suspend his license and expect them to jump on your say so. You've already posted all the information...
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