(In addition to my previous question on ROFR.)
Father have a 60/40 split where the mother.
Income at the time of divorce (a year ago) was about $2500 hundred a month for her (hiding the cash allowance from second job) and $3700 for him.
Daddy pays for health insurance,\ and is suppose to pay half medical expenses (always gives full refund on ALL medical expenses by choice).
He is entitled to claim one of the minors in his income tax if he is current in child support (which comes out of his paycheck and goes thru the state to her banking account - so he is NEVER Late), however, she always beats him in the game filing hers before and claiming both children.
The smallest one is picked up by stepmother every day after school and there's no day care expense. Mom picks her up from our home at her discretion. This child is engaged in extra curricular activities such as dance, arts, music and sports fully paid by father.
Mom have no interest in participating and is fully aware of schedule and schools where minor is signed up to perform any of this activities.
Daddy income increased by around $15k since the divorce after working overtime and receiving a promotion at work.
Child support is $300.00 a month based on custody arrangements and expenses daddy have with minors (such as health). During the divorce he absorbed ALL marital DEBIT and ended up bankrupt. She walked away with half his 401k and a car. He got nothing but the time he wanted with his children.
Now she is taking him back to court and asking for $1000.00 in child support stating that the children are spending more time with her because he is working overtime and that he is now Bankrupt. Based on my journal (I kept records of it all) She had taken the children from our home without his consent four times within that year. Once he was at Home Depot when she came, I told her, she took off with her children and for two days she stayed at a friends house out of town so he couldn't have his children.
FOr what I can see so far, is very easy for her to take him back to court any time alleging more time due to the ROFR.
Doesn't she need to prove her allegations? Because we CAN prove she is lying.
In addition, I have a police report she filled in MAY of 2009 (Divorce was Dec 2008) stating that she wanted the cop to produce a record showing that since the time of the divorce the father had not seen the children or picked them up. I have pictures showing the children in addition to the journal with him AS STATED in the agreement. She left the country for two weeks just one month BEFORE filling that false report and we took care of the children. Is that a good proof of her lies?
Is not that daddy doesn't wanna give mom more money for children, however, mom doesn't spend any money ON THE CHILDREN themselves other than the expenses we ALL HAVE as parents, such as home and food (but again, she is employed and receives SOME MONEY from him to HELP with it). She brings them here and tell them to go get clothes and shoes in their closets when they need everything (going out/parties). I go out shopping for them often and send clothes to her home too. I buy all the school supplies every year for both children and pay for the majority of school expenses (field trips/other expenses/some lunch - they receive free lunch)and right now, we are about to face bills with a psychologist for the little one that developed a habit of pulling and eating her hair and doing number one and two on herself everywhere she goes.
Yes my husband is earning a little more He's salary is about $4800 now days, however, just in classes for the little one he is paying around $300.00 and soon adding more medical expenses.