Not the father, but pursued for child support
Here's the situation. A girl that i knew and dated a lil while called me one day and said that she was preganant and that she was sure i was the father. I had not heard from the girl in like 4 months and then calls me out of the blue and tells me she was 7 1/2 months pregnant with my kid. I naturally asked her over and over like 50 times if she was sure it was mine and she said there is no one else withing 3 months of me. Anyways i believed her had the baby oct. of 2004 and got together in nov. well everything was good until last july 2005 when she broke up with me and filed for child support. I thought something was fishy so i got a dna kit online and did a test and sent it in. It came back that i was not the father. i was devastated and cut ties with her and have not seen the kid since then which has been tough. anyways i told her and she said that there was one guy two weeks before me but she thought i was the father so she said nothing about him. Anyways I finally got served a couple days ago with the child support papers that she filed for before i had the test done. When i did find out about him i called the friend of the court and they told me that i had to wait to recieve the papers before i could do anything, thats why i never did anything about the paternity test. My question is what should i do and what is the best way to pursue this since i just recieved the child support papers. I'm not paying yet, it's just a summons to go to court for it and get it established. Does anyone have any advice as to what to say or do and what route i should take so i dont get screwed. Should i wait till the court date or can i do anything before it. P.S. She hasn't even told the real father yet about him yet and she is pregnant with another one.