Termination of Parental Rights Before Mother Remarries

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Quoting Dogmatique

Do you keep track of every single thing happening to your ex? I sure as heck don't. :confused:

Actually no. I have been in the same situation, but I was the guy who wasn't the bio-father. My question really was: Is the reason you don't want no part of being the father is because of the poor relationship you had with the mother? If, so that is not a good reason to want nothing to do with your child.

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Quoting Dogmatique

Oh I don't know. Maybe because the man grows to love the child? Maybe because it's not about money?

And maybe you should find out if why. The child is yours.

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Quoting Dogmatique

What are you talking about?

What I am saying is, Your child mother and her boyfriend are making plans for the child if you decide to take some kind of action. It read like the actions are in your favor, but as long as you stand pat. Nothing going to happen, because the is no need for any action to be made. You are there and mother is wherever she is, collecting $$$$ with no real interest from you. Why should she make any decisions as long as you do nothing but send money? It reads as if she will let you off the hook if you show up constantly wanting visitation.