Life Estate in the State of Florida
Ok, this is going to be lengthy. What is the deal with a life estate in the state of Florida? I am trying to figure out how to protect my interest in this life estate. My dad died 3 years ago, leaving his home in his name only..(deeded). Due to florida laws, the mortgage on the house had to be in both spouses name. He was married at the time of his death, so now his surviving spouse is responsible for that mortgage. However, because the deed was in his name alone...the home automatically went into a life estate when he died. (well not sure how "automatic" that is..but that's what was done..lol) Dad said the house would be ours in the end. (meaning my sisters and I) I believe the only way he could do this is to leave it as it was left..going into the life estate...as that's how Florida laws are. Dad's wife is a greedy person, who just "cannot believe" dad did not leave everything to her. (this may give you an idea of what kind of person I have to deal with) Anyway, the home is worth approximately 250k. The balance on the mortgage is 60k. My dad was paying mortgage bimonthly when he was alive to pay down faster. Wife is still doing the same. Now, I am not sure if it's written in the mortgage agreement that way, but have told her not to pay it down like that if she doesn't have to. I do have access to bank # for informational purposes only. I know that the payment is 384.00 a month. But she pays that twice monthly, as dad did. When I call the bank to retrieve knowledge that she's paying timely, it just says...as an example...last payment received was 384.00 on Feb 1. Your next payment of 384.00 is due March 1. This would mean to me that she doesn't HAVE to pay this twice a month. She is calling me and my sister (who are the remaining interest part of this life estate) complaining that she cannot afford the mortgage payment. She wants us to pay it. Now, being as my own mortgage is WAY higher than hers, I have a problem with that....I'd love a 384.00 a month mortgage..even double that would be less than what most people have to pay. I've talked to her at length about this. She recently has said she's going to have to sell or go into forclosure. I've also checked with the bank, and asked about how I would know if she defaults on that loan, and they say because my name isn't on that mortgage, I'll have no way to know. In her estimates of selling and offerings to us, because as I understand it, my sister and I have to AGREE to sell also, her offer to us was 20k. I don't even know if she meant a piece, or together, because I basically laughed at her. Even the actuary tables give us a better margin than that. I told her no. She SAYS she really doesn't want to move. My guess is that she is truly just trying to figure out a way to screw us. But I'm told there really isn't any way with the exception of forclosing, and then, what good does that do even her ? The money is too important to her. She is complaining that she's eating up all the other money my dad left her, because she chooses not to work. And she's using his interitance to pay all bills. I even gave her an example of her own insane thinking, by telling her, even if we agreed to 20k a piece, and you have to pay the mtg. off...that's 100k off the selling price. Never mind any other costs, as they are hers. Lets say she can sell for 275k...write off what she pays off mtg, and us, and closing costs or whatever, and she'll maybe have 160k left. Ok...what's she gonna buy for that? I told her you'll eat through that within 5 years and be living in a tent. She's still left with next to nothing to live on. I apologize for lengthy post. I'm just bewildered at this woman, who is 53 at most...thinking she should just be able to live life free and clear now that my dad's gone. Banks won't give her the time of day as she cannot refinance anything, or get another mortgage because this home is in this life estate. Never mind the fact that she's not working so doesn't have an income for a bank to even consider anyway. There must be some way that I can protect my interests in this house. I have no problems waiting it out, letting her live there, until she dies. That's in my best interest anyway. I've offerred to pay off the mortgage if she turns over her interest to me, but she says she'd rather see it go into forclosure before she lets me have it..lol. Insane. Any suggestions? Thanks.....