I have a child with a woman who also has a child to another person.
If we were to separate my support payment would be almost 5 times what the other father currently pays.
Will I have to pay this rate? Though I do not want to deny my child anything I would be contributing my income to the other child. How does this work? Do I just have to pay and grin and bear it while my money is used to support another child?
Disparity in Wage
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06-11-2009, 07:05 PMayreguyDisparity in Wage
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06-11-2009, 07:59 PM525601minutesRe: Disparity in Wage
1. you didn't list your state
2. you don't get to decide how CS is spent. As long as you child is being provided with food, shelter, clothing, medical care and an education - the money goes where the money goes. -
06-11-2009, 08:03 PMayreguyRe: Disparity in WagePA - I don't want to decide how it is spent other than that it is spent for the care of my child.Quote:
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This decreases the benefit of my income to my child. -
06-11-2009, 08:26 PMjkRe: Disparity in Wage
wow. You were just talking about the mom moving to the 2 hours away and now you are talking about splitting up?
http://www.expertlaw.com/forums/showthread.php?t=78869
that is one reason a judge is reluctant to allow a move in a situation such as yours.
and your child support is based on your income, the other parents income and where the child spends their time. The "my money will help support her other child" is a piss poor argument and does not hold water. -
06-11-2009, 08:29 PMayreguyRe: Disparity in WageI am trying to evaluate all possibilities.Quote:
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06-11-2009, 08:42 PMjkRe: Disparity in Wage
you are speaking of either moving as a couple together or separating.. That is not exploring possibilities. That is playing games with somebody.