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  • 02-07-2006, 06:56 AM
    whatever
    Mother Demands Sex With Son
    My mother is an alcoholic and I am 15 and when she was sober she DEMANDED I rape her... she demanded it twice then later on she kept saying she should have aborted me and I was an abortion and she cursed me and pulled my hair really hard. All this when she was sober. She keeps telling me I am different to the others in my family and I am really handsome and when she is in the bathroom she lets me look at her breasts and doesn't hide them or shut the door. She keeps putting me down and being nasty for no reason and my dad just stands by and watches or joins in. I reported the rape me thing to social services and told a psychiatrist about the abortion thing, but I want to report everything and I was wondering if any of this is a crime I can make the police press charges with? I've been threatened not to cause any more trouble with reporting etc so I was wondering if the police can do anything about it? I want a divorce from them if they don't want to let me go to the police. Social services are watching me for the time being, but I'm too scared to tell.
  • 02-08-2006, 05:21 AM
    Mr. Knowitall
    Abusive Home
    Psychological abuse, at a minimuml; whether a crime could be charged and what offense might be involved would vary by jurisdiction.
  • 02-08-2006, 04:18 PM
    whatever
    Well, I think it's some sort of sexual harassment or assault. She ORDERED me to. I didn't of course, but I think it was some sort of crime cos I am a minor and she is a my mom. I guess I just need advice really. Thanks.
  • 02-09-2006, 12:47 AM
    kwade30
    attempted incest
    Things do vary by jurisdictions.

    In CO, this would be attempted incest, by a person in a position of trust. The mother would be prosecuted, placed on the sex offender registry, do jail or prison time or have to complete a therapy program while on probation that is (arguably) worse than jail. (Probation set at 2-5 years, but is renewed automatically until the therapy program is completed to the satisfaction of the probation officer.)

    Child protective services should be able to get you out of the situation, and with the national attention given to sex offenders, the likelihood that a DA wouldn't seek to pursue prosecution seems small.

    ALso, there is the issue of mandatory reporting.

    CPS is bound by law to report this incident to the authorities - mandatory reporting - and so criminal charges are imminent, I believe.

    Historically, once a sex offender loses custody of a child, the probability of regaining custody (or even any significant parenting time) - it would be a tough and costly battle for the parent.

    Hang in there, and confide in someone for support you can trust.
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