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  • 01-30-2006, 10:57 AM
    mushman99
    Division of 401K Plan in Divorce
    I was divorced 5/2005 and in the divorce decree I am intitled to half of my ex'es 401k her lawyer is supposed to do a QARDRO form? Its been over 8 months and nothing has been done to finalize this so in the mean time I ended up leaving everything so my children wouldnt feel as much pain that my ex inflicked on us. I moved out and put the real estate settlement into a condo but i knew i was due $7000. from the 401k so I used credit cards to live untill my settlement came in now I have bills due the credit card companys are defaulting on me i work 2 jobs i have no cash im working to pay theses credit copanies thier late payments i used to have a good credit rating that is being ruined. i have contacted her lawyer, her boss also my ex has done the same just to get an answer and to no avail nothing im sinking and feel like i cant get up i have to work so much i dont have time for my children im going crazy ive sold everthing i have just to have gas money for my jobs can i sue her lawyer do i have a case can anyone help i need help!
  • 01-30-2006, 11:21 AM
    Mr. Knowitall
    Problem with QDRO
    Why not have your own lawyer prepare a QDRO, then petition the court to approve it.
  • 01-30-2006, 11:54 AM
    mushman99
    lawyer?
    the divorce was supposed to cordial she told me "you dont need a lawyer mine will take care of everything" and i listened well i didnt find out untill after i sighned the decree that she was cheating for over 2 years and that her lawyer was trying to and did stick me up the wazoo but i didnt fight i was in a depression and for the sake of my children thats all i care (ed) about at the time. but now if i dont get help i will never see my children i am to the point of desperartion i work 16-20hrs a day banks wont help i tried they say my debt to income is to low i work for cash on my second job i pay my support its taken out every week. i know i was stupid she fudged me good i wish i wouldnt of loved her i just want to know why doesnt her lawyer do what she was paid to do? why do i have to keep sufferig for something i didnt want do anything to deserve why?
  • 01-30-2006, 01:51 PM
    mushman99
    are you kidding me?
    i just got notice its going to the judge wendsday. i have always said if you live a good honest life things will work out. it only took 8months of hardship but isnt life a lot of hurdles that need to be jumped over as you come up to it?
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