Illegal Immigrant DNA Test

My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Texas

I was going to marry an illegal immigrant but a month before the wedding he started acting weird and saying weird stuff like:
1. My friend told me that in order to get my green card I need to at least have the light bill on my name
2. Give the document that show that I will marry you to show to my boss that I am going to be a legal US citizen very soon
3. Once I get my green card I can let my brothers borrow my documents for they to work.
4. Since I will be your husband now your house is mine and my family and friends need a place to stay. When it is going to be ready for they to move in? By the way I need your car keys too.
5. He told his brother once I get my green card we can go back to Guatemala and bring our friends here they can stay at my house (which it was a house that I was buying at that time). My woman can do the driving since she is a citizen, it would be easier for her.
6. My friend, don’t worry about my woman she has papers to throw away… she is not a legal resident but a US citizen I will have my green card sooner than you think.
After hearing these remarks and much more I took a short vacation to process all of this. When I got back from my short vacation from him, he was mad and told me that I was his woman and that everything that it was mine it was his and I needed his permission to go out without him. I was 6 weeks pregnant and I walked away from him then, He cried and said “what am I going to tell my friends now and my boss you are not going to make a fool of me”. Next day he when crying to my sisters telling them that they need to talk to me and tell me to marry him because I was his woman and I was pregnant. He took phone numbers of family members that never met him. To tell them to force me to marry him that it wasn’t right what I was doing.

I ignored everything that he was saying to my friends and ex-tended family members. 3 months after having my baby I allowed him to visit the baby with the condition of leaving my family and friends out of it. During the time that he visited my baby he tried to get me to marry him still and continue influencing my family to force me to marry him. I ignored, until one day he demanded my baby’s SSN since I didn’t wanted to give it to him, he told me that he have rights over the baby even to take him with him for weeks and that he was going to demand those rights. He makes propositions for me to marry him again and I said no. Never saw him again, until now 10 months later I received a letter from the Attorney General child support office where he is demanding a DNA test. I don’t need help from the government to support my child and I never applied for child support either.


What should I do?
· I have denied the DNA test so far, is this right can I do that? Could I go to jail for not providing a DNA tests?
· Can he get access to my baby’s SSN through the DNA test documents?
· Can he take me to court and file for custody?
· How can I protect my child from him, since he is illegally here he is a flight risk

The only real way to true protection has already passed. You chose to create a baby with him, and other factors aside, that set up a situation where he'll likely have SOME level of access to the child for the next 18 years assuming he stays in the country.

If he has a court order for paternity testing and you refuse to produce the child for testing you can be found in contempt and possibly jailed.

Yes he can take you to court and ask for custody/visitation.

If you think he's a danger for flight risk you can ask that the visitation be supervised.

Child support isn't about whether or not you need the help. The child is entitled to support from both parents. If the money is not needed right now then put it in a savings account for your child to use later in life.

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Quoting stupidpplsuck

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The only real way to true protection has already passed. You chose to create a baby with him, and other factors aside, that set up a situation where he'll likely have SOME level of access to the child for the next 18 years assuming he stays in the country.

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I thank you for your reply. Let me clarify something... I didn't choose to have my baby with this man. I had a relationship with him that let to have my precious baby with him. At the age of 20 I was diagnosed with a disease and I was told that I couldn't have children and in my first relationship we tried to have babies and for years.... for 5 years ... he got tired and left me for another woman because he wanted to be a father. When I met the father of my baby I was in treatment with hormones to keep tumors under control. If I would have wanted to become pregnant by choice I would have taken myself out of the hormones treatment and have surgery in my uterus because I didn't have space for the baby to grow, which I didn't, causing a risky pregnancy and child birth. So, there are situations lets not generalize people

I DO THANK YOU FOR YOUR INPUT ...