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Alleged Harassment
My question involves criminal records for the state of: Indiana
Hello,
I have never been in trouble with the law before in my life but recently an ex-girlfriend of mine called the police when I sent her nasty emails telling her to stay away from me and to never contact me again. There were no threats of violence contained in the emails - just telling her to stay away and giving her a piece of my mind after some very rude behavior on her part towards me.
I received a phone call from a police lieutenant who said that I had been named a suspect in a harassment case. I feel that this is pure over-kill but I understand the police's role in all this. He informed me to stay away from her and to have absolutely no contact with her or a restraining order would be issued and then if I violated that I'd be arrested on a felony and would go directly to jail.
I had no intention of having any more contact with this person and told the police officer who then said that he would mark that I had been "notified" and that I was good to go as long as I followed his advice to stay away from this person. The Lieutenant also expressed some sympathy for my position.
My "case" is probably very common but I am not a stalker or any kind of deviant and I do not want anything on my record relating to this. In my opinion this whole affair has been a waste of my time and of the police's. I have not been able to get ahold of the Lieutenant to ask him this question so I thought it best to ask here - but I'm still going to contact the officer in charge.
So, my question is: will this appear on my criminal record? There have been no charges brought against me. There has been no arrest. There hasn't been anything except a "case" in which I have been named a "suspect."
Help. :confused:
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Re: Alleged Harassment
"Suggestions" from police don't show up anywhere. If she files for a hearing and gets a court to issue an order (remember, police don't do this, judges do), that order will show up to law enforcement who can then make an arrest if the order is violated, but if it is a CIVIL order only, it doesn't appear on your criminal record. Most criminal-based orders come in conjunction with an arrest (such as for domestic violence).