Re: Am I Being Unreasonable?
Yes, you are being unreasonable. However, let the mediator decide.
We stopped penalizing people for working a long time ago. If he has adequate child care lined up for her in his absence, then he's got it taken care of.
Re: Am I Being Unreasonable?
He's taking me to court to gain 2 extra days a month. What is so wrong with her being with her mom for those two days until he's finished with his schooling a year from now. I'm not penalizing him for working, she's watched by his family during his weeks in the summer and his half of her school breaks, which I agreed to willingly. He barely came into her life 5 years ago and our daughter still complains about having to go to his house when he's not there, all I'm trying to do is ease her frustrations about constantly having to leave my house to be with other people and not her Dad.
Re: Am I Being Unreasonable?
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He's taking me to court to gain 2 extra days a month. What is so wrong with her being with her mom for those two days until he's finished with his schooling a year from now. I'm not penalizing him for working, she's watched by his family during his weeks in the summer and his half of her school breaks, which I agreed to willingly. He barely came into her life 5 years ago and our daughter still complains about having to go to his house when he's not there, all I'm trying to do is ease her frustrations about constantly having to leave my house to be with other people and not her Dad.
I guess he feels those two days with his daughter are precious.
We cannot guess at the motivations of your ex.
Re: Am I Being Unreasonable?
He's not even going to be with her for those 2 days. he will be at school while our daughter is with his girlfriend and by the time he gets home she'll be in bed because they are school nights. He actually first requested that he not have to pay child support and he will pay for any activities she's in. I wouldn't agree to that so now he wants 50/50. Some people have said that with 50/50 there is no child support order. It's always been about money first and when he couldn't get that he went after the visitation. I'm willing to agree to the 50/50 beginning net year when he's finished with his night school but he wants it now becasue when he's done with school he'll be making more money and he doesn't want to have to pay more.
Re: Am I Being Unreasonable?
Well then let the mediator decide. You don't seem to want to hear anything unless the opinion agrees with your thought process. Good luck.