Neglected At Home And Desiring Emancipation

hi, im 16 years old, i live in la habra california. i keep applying for jobs, so far im having no luck. im currently going to school. i live in a 3 bedroom house with 11 people including myself (3 of those people aren't even related to me). i dont talk to anybody here.. not even my mom or stepdad. me and my mom fight way too much. we cant go one week without fighting. so basically i just stay in my room all by myself. i hardly ever eat because im not allowed to get anything in the refridgerator that doesn't belong to me or else it will start problems. my mom is hardly ever home. she's always working so its not like it makes a difference anyways, its not like she'd talk to me. i try my best to avoid coming home from school. i went to go talk to my councelor about my problems that go on at home. when i did he threatened my mom that he would call child services on her if she didnt take action. as soon as we left the councelors office, she got mad at me for talking. so pretty much i was confused as to what to do. :confused:
my so called sister has 3 kids and they all live in one bedroom right next door to mine. she hits them daily, is always yelling at them (mostly cursing). my so called brother is a drunk and lives in the garage and has three illegal ailiens living with him in there. one of them being his girlfriend and the other 2 being her daughters. those three have problems with me. the daughters give me problems at school. i want to call immigration on them but it would cause more problems here obviously, especially towards me, and its something i just dont need right now...
my house is a wreck. its horrible and embarassing. i never invite anybody over just because i dotn want them to see how its falling apart, how dirty and crowded it is and because i dont want them to hear the yelling that goes on daily.

this is just the half of it...im not too sure what to do. i want to get emancipated but i think i would miss my mom. dispite the fact we dont talk...
i'm not to sure what to do anymore. its driving me insane. what's your opinon on this?

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Quoting evieej17

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hi, im 16 years old, i live in la habra california. i keep applying for jobs, so far im having no luck. im currently going to school. i live in a 3 bedroom house with 11 people including myself (3 of those people aren't even related to me). i dont talk to anyone of them. not even my mom or stepdad. me and my mom fight way too much. we cant go one week without fighting. so basically i just stay in my room all by myself. i hardly ever eat because im not allowed to get anything in the refridgerator that doesn't belong to me or else it will start problems. my mom is hardly ever home. she's always working so its not like it makes a difference anyways, its not like she'd talk to me. i try my best to avoid coming home from school. i suffer from depression and insomnia because of all the problems that go on here. my doctor recommended going to my councelor at school so i can talk to him about all the problems that go on here. when i did he threatened my mom that he would call child services on her if she didnt take action. as soon as we left the councelors office, she got mad at me for talking. so pretty much i was confused as to what to do. :confused:
my so called sister has 3 kids and they all live in one bedroom right next door to mine. she hits them daily, is always yelling at them (mostly cursing). my so called brother is a drunk and lives in the garage and has three illegal ailiens living with him in there. one of them being his girlfriend and the other 2 being her daughters. those three have problems with me. the daughters give me problems at school. i want to call immigration on them but it would cause more problems here obviously, especially towards me, and its something i just dont need right now...
my house is a wreck. its horrible and embarassing. i never invite anybody over just because i dotn want them to see how its falling apart, how dirty and crowded it is and because i dont want them to hear the yelling that goes on daily.

this is just the half of it...im not too sure what to do. i want to get emancipated but i think i would miss my mom. dispite the fact we dont talk...
i'm not to sure what to do anymore. its driving me insane.

should i, or should i not? [/SIZE]

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Without reading past your first few lines I can tell you, you cannot be emancipated. See the part in bold

i need a job to emancipate?

Emancipation is about self support not get out of your parents home free card.

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Quoting evieej17

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hi, im 16 years old, i live in la habra california. i keep applying for jobs, so far im having no luck. im currently going to school. i live in a 3 bedroom house with 11 people including myself (3 of those people aren't even related to me). i dont talk to anyone of them. not even my mom or stepdad. me and my mom fight way too much. we cant go one week without fighting. so basically i just stay in my room all by myself. i hardly ever eat because im not allowed to get anything in the refridgerator that doesn't belong to me or else it will start problems. my mom is hardly ever home. she's always working so its not like it makes a difference anyways, its not like she'd talk to me. i try my best to avoid coming home from school. i suffer from depression and insomnia because of all the problems that go on here. my doctor recommended going to my councelor at school so i can talk to him about all the problems that go on here. when i did he threatened my mom that he would call child services on her if she didnt take action. as soon as we left the councelors office, she got mad at me for talking. so pretty much i was confused as to what to do. :confused:
my so called sister has 3 kids and they all live in one bedroom right next door to mine. she hits them daily, is always yelling at them (mostly cursing). my so called brother is a drunk and lives in the garage and has three illegal ailiens living with him in there. one of them being his girlfriend and the other 2 being her daughters. those three have problems with me. the daughters give me problems at school. i want to call immigration on them but it would cause more problems here obviously, especially towards me, and its something i just dont need right now...
my house is a wreck. its horrible and embarassing. i never invite anybody over just because i dotn want them to see how its falling apart, how dirty and crowded it is and because i dont want them to hear the yelling that goes on daily.

this is just the half of it...im not too sure what to do. i want to get emancipated but i think i would miss my mom. dispite the fact we dont talk...
i'm not to sure what to do anymore. its driving me insane.

should i, or should i not? [/SIZE]

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Should you, or should you not what?

should i emancipate to cissycicle.

panther: i know emancipation is about self support, im still looking for jobs. i only simply stated that im not employed yet.

Read this after you feel you can meet the requirments comeback

well thank you. although ive already gone through this information before. all i needed help on was on the decision of leaving or not.

Talk to your counselor about everything you can do to get your own life in order - making the most of your situation, whether that's ultimately at home or somewhere else. One of the things you learn in life is that you can't fix other people, but at the same time you can improve yourself and the way you respond to others. The younger you start, the better.

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Quoting aaron

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Talk to your counselor about everything you can do to get your own life in order - making the most of your situation, whether that's ultimately at home or somewhere else. One of the things you learn in life is that you can't fix other people, but at the same time you can improve yourself and the way you respond to others. The younger you start, the better.

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and I thought I was only former counselor here lol. Great advice:D