how to handle wife in our divorce processing
I am German man 40 years old married to Brazilian woman 36 years old. My marriage already 10 years.
I have a marriage problem already long time and now I ask for divorce from my wife. I found her cheated on me already 3 years with a man in my neighbor that she always told me that he is her best friend. I found her intimate email's to this man. She also controlling me all the time, and provocating me also all the time, so almost everyday fighting. We don't have any kid from our marriage, she has daughter from her former husband. The fighting makes me stress and effected to my business coz I could not concentrate on my work if she all the time trying to make a fighting. She cannot keep her words, coz she always changed her mind every minutes.
We agreed to divorce, first she said she will leave the house and busy looking her new appartment. I said I will help her. But few weeks later she changed her mind doesn't want to leave the house, she wants me to leave and also she threated me that she will hire someone from russia to fight with me. She has a complicated personality, and I notice all now..it bring a fear in me.
For me, I don't have a problem about the sharing that I should give to her according of divorce rules in German, but I could not leave the house coz I have my own business at home. I tried many time talked with her in good way, but she always start fighting again with lots of threaten.
What should I do to handle the situation, i really getting stress and it makes my business going down. How I can handle this person?
How to make her leave the house?