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  • 08-18-2019, 07:46 PM
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    What Are My Legal Options Here
    My question involves a child custody case from the State of:

    So, judge agreed that exchange should stay as it but if I only wants him for few hr I have to do both drop off and pick up. Mother didn’t mention that is stepmom car etc. Judge was very upset that we can’t get into an agreement. I offered counseling but mother said she is afraid of me due to domestic violence. Im tired of her bs. Judge say we should follow the order entirely.

    Additionally judge order communication only via texts and she is telling me that if I dare to call her she will put an harassment order. Seriously? I told judge I won’t talk via text as I know is stepmom.

    Now, after she agreed I could take him on her month and for a few days out of the country she said no, and to follow the order. Shes upset because I won at court & got what I wanted. I waste money on flight and she is refusing to reimburse me.

    Im planing on taking her to court. What are my options?
  • 08-18-2019, 09:08 PM
    eerelations
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    You're going to take her to court because you won't follow the judge's orders? Ummm...you can't.
  • 08-19-2019, 04:49 AM
    llworking
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    My question involves a child custody case from the State of:

    So, judge agreed that exchange should stay as it but if I only wants him for few hr I have to do both drop off and pick up. Mother didn’t mention that is stepmom car etc. Judge was very upset that we can’t get into an agreement. I offered counseling but mother said she is afraid of me due to domestic violence. Im tired of her bs. Judge say we should follow the order entirely.

    Additionally judge order communication only via texts and she is telling me that if I dare to call her she will put an harassment order. Seriously? I told judge I won’t talk via text as I know is stepmom.

    Now, after she agreed I could take him on her month and for a few days out of the country she said no, and to follow the order. Shes upset because I won at court & got what I wanted. I waste money on flight and she is refusing to reimburse me.

    Im planing on taking her to court. What are my options?

    You also didn't win at court. You lost. The judge ruled exactly the way we told you the judge would rule. You did not get what you wanted. You have to provide all of the transportation if you only want him for a few hours, which means that you will be providing all of the transportation almost all of the time, since you only take him for a few hours at a time.
  • 08-19-2019, 05:22 AM
    eerelations
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    You also didn't win at court. You lost. The judge ruled exactly the way we told you the judge would rule. You did not get what you wanted. You have to provide all of the transportation if you only want him for a few hours, which means that you will be providing all of the transportation almost all of the time, since you only take him for a few hours at a time.

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  • 08-19-2019, 06:30 AM
    hr for me
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    not sure how you think you won in any way. The judge ruled you have to drive both ways. The judge ruled you may only communicate via text. The judge ruled you must follow the order....how exactly do you think you won?
  • 08-19-2019, 06:38 AM
    cbg
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    If you seriously think that you won in court or that you have any legal options to take Mom to court, I think we've just isolated the entire problem here. You are delusional.
  • 08-19-2019, 07:05 AM
    PayrolGuy
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    I'm so happy you got your a$$ handed to you by the court. I said you would long ago.
  • 08-19-2019, 07:44 AM
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    Mom wanted me to do both pick up and drop off. She didn’t mention this at court but did mentioned that she cannot do both if I want him for few hrs which judge agreed.

    I had an argument with mother last week because I told my son that I cannot take him with me for vacation out of the country because mom said no. She warned me not to talk about her or stepmom during phone or visitation.

    I did mentioned it to my son again and told him that mom made me waste my money on flights and that she owed me that money. My son told me he have to hang up the phone because I mentioned his mother and that my month was july not august.

    She than texted me and said that phone calls are suspended until I return back from my country. And that if I keep on talking negative about her to my son she will suspend visitation. She is clearly violating the order and forcing me to go to court.

    Why she insist on doing this to me
  • 08-19-2019, 07:57 AM
    BooRennie
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    Mom wanted me to do both pick up and drop off. She didn’t mention this at court but did mentioned that she cannot do both if I want him for few hrs which judge agreed.

    I had an argument with mother last week because I told my son that I cannot take him with me for vacation out of the country because mom said no. She warned me not to talk about her or stepmom during phone or visitation.

    I did mentioned it to my son again and told him that mom made me waste my money on flights and that she owed me that money. My son told me he have to hang up the phone because I mentioned his mother and that my month was july not august.

    She than texted me and said that phone calls are suspended until I return back from my country. And that if I keep on talking negative about her to my son she will suspend visitation. She is clearly violating the order and forcing me to go to court.

    Why she insist on doing this to me

    Because you persist on trying to alienate Son from Mom. Keep it up, Son will end up in therapy and you will have supervised visitation.
  • 08-19-2019, 11:04 AM
    eerelations
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    Mom wanted me to do both pick up and drop off.

    And you said the judge agreed with her on this. How is this a win for you?
  • 08-19-2019, 11:11 AM
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    She is violating the order by canceling my phone rights and told me that if I keep talking about her and step mom during visitation she will cancel it too. She cannot do that without a judge order. She is violating the order
  • 08-19-2019, 11:25 AM
    cbg
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    No, the judge said that all communication was to be by text. Therefore you do not HAVE "phone rights". If you refuse to accept texts because of your absurd delusion that it's Stepmom typing, that's on you, but YOU, not Mom, are the one violating the order.
  • 08-19-2019, 11:34 AM
    eerelations
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    No, the judge said that all communication was to be by text. Therefore you do not HAVE "phone rights". If you refuse to accept texts because of your absurd delusion that it's Stepmom typing, that's on you, but YOU, not Mom, are the one violating the order.

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  • 08-19-2019, 11:37 AM
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    She canceled my phone calls with my son! Because I mentioned to him she made me bought tickets and that she owes me money.

    She is clearly violating the order because she can’t cancel my phones with my son
  • 08-19-2019, 11:45 AM
    cbg
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    No, the judge cancelled your phone calls when he said all communication was to be by text. Mom doesn't have to cancel them - the judge already did it for her.

    Mom is not violating diddly.
  • 08-19-2019, 11:49 AM
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    Judge order phone calls with me and my son. Mom is interfering with my phone calls with my son by canceling them because I talked to him about mother. I was just telling him the truth!
    Text are with mother, phone calls with my son
  • 08-19-2019, 12:06 PM
    BooRennie
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    Judge order phone calls with me and my son. Mom is interfering with my phone calls with my son by canceling them because I talked to him about mother. I was just telling him the truth!
    Text are with mother, phone calls with my son

    I would like you to tell that to the judge. Tell the judge exactly what you have told us about what you say to Son.
  • 08-19-2019, 12:12 PM
    Back
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    She made me spent money on flights to than change her mind just told my son that she owes me money and he is not going with me because mom dont want him to. His response was that my month was in July not August. she is clearly alienating my son from me
  • 08-19-2019, 12:24 PM
    cbg
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    So, are you following the order? Are you communicating with Mom via text the way the judge ordered?

    Yes or no?
  • 08-19-2019, 12:36 PM
    Back
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    Yes I am. I have not call her or anything else. But because I told my son about her cancelling my flights and refusing to reimburse me she canceled my phone calls with him until I return back from my country.
  • 08-19-2019, 12:43 PM
    PayrolGuy
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    If you feel the mother has violated the order you go back to court. You should know how by now considering the number of times you have been there.

    I look forward to hearing the judge's reaction.
  • 08-19-2019, 12:47 PM
    eerelations
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    I look forward to hearing the judge's reaction.

    Oh yes, me too!
  • 08-19-2019, 01:06 PM
    cbg
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    Earlier in this thread you said you would not text her. Which is it? Are you, or are you not, communicating with Mom by text?
  • 08-19-2019, 01:13 PM
    Back
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    she texted that my phone calls with my son are cancelled due to me talking about her to my son. I told her that that is another violation and Im taking her to court.
    I also texted her that Im taking her to court since she made me buy a ticket and refusing to reimburse me. So, I'm entitled to get my money back from her !
  • 08-19-2019, 01:18 PM
    PayrolGuy
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    she texted that my phone calls with my son are cancelled due to me talking about her to my son. I told her that that is another violation and Im taking her to court.
    I also texted her that Im taking her to court since she made me buy a ticket and refusing to reimburse me. So, I'm entitled to get my money back from her !


    So you have only communicated threats to her. That's going to go over great with the judge.
  • 08-19-2019, 01:20 PM
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    Where are the threats? Im informing her that she made me waste my money buying tickets for my son and that she needs to pay me my money back. How is that a threat?
  • 08-19-2019, 01:38 PM
    PayrolGuy
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    Where are the threats? Im informing her that she made me waste my money buying tickets for my son and that she needs to pay me my money back. How is that a threat?


    I told her that that is another violation and Im taking her to court.


    I also texted her that Im taking her to court since she made me buy a ticket and refusing to reimburse me.
  • 08-19-2019, 01:41 PM
    cbg
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    How is it NOT a threat?
  • 08-19-2019, 01:57 PM
    PMMH
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    She “made him” do things. There is 0% chance that this is an actual situation and not a troll carrying this on.
  • 08-19-2019, 02:01 PM
    llworking
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    She “made him” do things. There is 0% chance that this is an actual situation and not a troll carrying this on.

    I dunno, he has managed to be pretty consistent in his idiocy. Trolls normally cannot do that.
  • 08-19-2019, 02:09 PM
    Back
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    She agreed on me taking him on vacation since I could not take him with me on my month. But because I took her to court to follow the transportation order she got upset and said she is following the order 100 percent not at my convenience.
  • 08-19-2019, 02:13 PM
    cbg
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    Oh, that's pretty consistent with some forms of personality disorder. It's never their fault; it's always the fault of someone else who "made" him do things. You see that a lot in domestic violence cases - "I didn't want to hit her but she made me do it by not doing what I told her to".

    Which is pretty consistent with how this jackass comes across.

    Back, you KNOW we're all going to side with Mom here. Why do you even bother coming back?
  • 08-19-2019, 02:20 PM
    PayrolGuy
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    She agreed on me taking him on vacation since I could not take him with me on my month. But because I took her to court to follow the transportation order she got upset and said she is following the order 100 percent not at my convenience.

    Yep, when you drag people into court they do have a tendency to not do you any more favors.

    But just so it is clear. You went to court and bitched that she wasn't following the order. Now, you want to take her to court because she is following the order.

    BTW... Does the child have a passport?
  • 08-19-2019, 02:29 PM
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    Well that was another problem we had. my child passport is expired and she wanted me to pay in full I told her no. she is suppose to pay half.

    All of this is because of step mom mom is her puppet she does not allow us to parent our child because she is always interfering
  • 08-19-2019, 02:34 PM
    llworking
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    Well that was another problem we had. my child passport is expired and she wanted me to pay in full I told her no. she is suppose to pay half.

    All of this is because of step mom mom is her puppet she does not allow us to parent our child because she is always interfering

    Does the court order require her to pay half of the fee for his passport? If not, you are the one who wanted to take him out of the country therefore you are the one who should pay for the passport. In any case, its too late now, so your failure to get his passport renewed is what is stopping him from leaving the country, anyway.

    You have absolutely no idea if stepmom is interfering or not since you have zero contact with stepmom. You are just using stepmom to explain why you no longer have any control over mom. You are doing it because you cannot mentally handle the fact that you no longer have any control over mom.
  • 08-19-2019, 02:55 PM
    PayrolGuy
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    Well that was another problem we had. my child passport is expired and she wanted me to pay in full I told her no. she is suppose to pay half.

    All of this is because of step mom mom is her puppet she does not allow us to parent our child because she is always interfering

    Unless she is planning to take the child out of the country there is no reason for her to pay a dime for the passport. If I were her I'd be fighting tooth and nail to make sure you didn't take the child out of the country.

    And you need to get over the fact that your wife is with a woman. It is a blow to your ego that you aren't doing well with.
  • 08-19-2019, 03:13 PM
    llworking
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    Unless she is planning to take the child out of the country there is no reason for her to pay a dime for the passport. If I were her I'd be fighting tooth and nail to make sure you didn't take the child out of the country.

    And you need to get over the fact that your wife is with a woman. It is a blow to your ego that you aren't doing well with.

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  • 08-19-2019, 03:20 PM
    eerelations
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    Ex-Wife

    EXCEPT!!! OP is still working hard on appealing the divorce, he wants it cancelled and NOW. He hasn't said as much in this particular thread, but has brought it up in most/all of his other threads.

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    ...my child passport is expired and she wanted me to pay in full I told her no. she is suppose to pay half.

    Did the judge order this?
  • 08-19-2019, 03:21 PM
    llworking
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    EXCEPT!!! OP is still working hard on appealing the divorce, he wants it cancelled and NOW. He hasn't said as much in this particular thread, but has brought it up in most/all of his other threads.

    True...LOL. He does seem to have dropped and/or accepted that particular issue.
  • 08-19-2019, 05:25 PM
    just blue
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    This thread is like a 45 car pile-up that you can't help but stare at despite KNOWING you will see bloody carnage.
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