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  • 12-03-2018, 06:33 PM
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    The Custodial Parent is Not Following the Court's Order for Phone Access
    My question involves a child custody case from the State of: NYC

    Custodial is again interfering with phone conversation with my child. We spent two months talking via whatsapp now he calling me from a new number and she says to use skype if I want to see him via camera and I dont use that. Plus, this new number seems to
    Be from an app and I can barely listen to my child.

    Custodial said she wont allow him to use her number because my
    Child saw on my phone pictures of her little child and stepmom.

    Im going to court tomorrow to file a motion for failure to obey phone calls. The judge ordered phone calls through her phone no someone else.

    I dont understand her insistence on making things impossible for me. You guys think im still the bad one?
  • 12-03-2018, 06:58 PM
    Mark47n
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    My question involves a child custody case from the State of: NYC

    Custodial is again interfering with phone conversation with my child. We spent two months talking via whatsapp now he calling me from a new number and she says to use skype if I want to see him via camera and I dont use that. Plus, this new number seems to
    Be from an app and I can barely listen to my child.

    Custodial said she wont allow him to use her number because my
    Child saw on my phone pictures of her little child and stepmom.

    Im going to court tomorrow to file a motion for failure to obey phone calls. The judge ordered phone calls through her phone no someone else.

    I dont understand her insistence on making things impossible for me. You guys think im still the bad one?

    Yes.

    Yes, you're still the problem. You don't flex when it's reasonable yet expect others to flex when it's not. You make things impossible for her yet expect grace. You. Are. The. Problem. From all of your descriptions and interminable posts you demonstrate that you're thickheaded at best a complete pillock at worst.
  • 12-03-2018, 07:08 PM
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    She’s interfering with phonecalls and Im filing a motion. Things would look very bad for her at court.
  • 12-03-2018, 07:10 PM
    llworking
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    She’s interfering with phonecalls and Im filing a motion. Things would look very bad for her at court.

    Nope, I don't think that anything will look bad for her at court at all. You are the one who looks bad.
  • 12-04-2018, 09:51 AM
    pg1067
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    You guys think im still the bad one?

    I don't know you from Adam and therefore have no opinion whatsoever, except that your post was a rather significant waste of time for this to be the only question asked.
  • 12-04-2018, 09:53 AM
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    Re: Custodial is Again Interfering with Phonecalls. Filing a Motion for Failure to Ob
    I filed the motion for violation of custody order. She’s interfering with my child and I phone conversation. Her excuse is that via whatsapp Im asking her to meet in person. Seriously?
  • 12-04-2018, 10:08 AM
    qwaspolk69
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    My question involves a child custody case from the State of: NYC

    Custodial is again interfering with phone conversation with my child. We spent two months talking via whatsapp now he calling me from a new number and she says to use skype if I want to see him via camera and I dont use that. Plus, this new number seems to
    Be from an app and I can barely listen to my child.

    Custodial said she wont allow him to use her number because my
    Child saw on my phone pictures of her little child and stepmom.

    Im going to court tomorrow to file a motion for failure to obey phone calls. The judge ordered phone calls through her phone no someone else.

    I dont understand her insistence on making things impossible for me. You guys think im still the bad one?

    If she's allowing you to talk to the kid then how is she interrupting calls?

    Why do you have pictures of your ex's child and her wife?

    How is she failing to obey allowing phone calls?

    Did you get the DNA test done? Did you get some mental help too?
  • 12-04-2018, 10:09 AM
    qwaspolk69
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    I filed the motion for violation of custody order. She’s interfering with my child and I phone conversation. Her excuse is that via whatsapp Im asking her to meet in person. Seriously?

    Seriously you need to back off. She is not violating anything or stopping you from contact. You're the creeper who has pictures of her kid and her wife on your phone. It's too bad she can't get a protection order against you.
  • 12-04-2018, 10:18 AM
    free9man
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    You're the creeper who has pictures of her kid and her wife on your phone. It's too bad she can't get a protection order against you.

    Too bad she couldn't have gotten a pic of that and then headed straight to court for a protection order. After all of OP's other crap plus that, I could see a judge not liking it at all.
  • 12-04-2018, 10:37 AM
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    She can get my child a new number and use whatsapp. Why is that so difficult?
  • 12-04-2018, 10:40 AM
    PayrolGuy
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    She was using Whatsapp. You used it to try and make her meet you in person.

    You could buy a phone as well and give it to the mother to be used for contact with the child.
  • 12-04-2018, 10:42 AM
    Shadowbunny
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    Yes.

    Yes, you're still the problem. You don't flex when it's reasonable yet expect others to flex when it's not. You make things impossible for her yet expect grace. You. Are. The. Problem. From all of your descriptions and interminable posts you demonstrate that you're thickheaded at best a complete pillock at worst.

    Bonus points to Mark47 for use of the word "pillock."

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    She can get my child a new number and use whatsapp. Why is that so difficult?

    Why is it so difficult for you to chat with your child using the number they have now? Here, let me answer that for you: it's wouldn't be hard for you at all. You're just looking for ways to be obtuse. But, please. Keep doing what you're doing; it will make it SO much easier for your ex to get an RO against you.
  • 12-04-2018, 11:40 AM
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    She was the one that changed everything. Everything was ok via whatsapp. Now he is calling me from a new number and does not have whatsapp. She wants me to download skype but I do not use that. I use whatsapp. How difficult is to allow me to speak with my child the same way we used to?
  • 12-04-2018, 12:07 PM
    PayrolGuy
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    Times change. There is nothing superior about Whatsapp over Skype.
  • 12-04-2018, 12:18 PM
    cbg
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    Y'know, it's really kind of creepy how determined he is to force his ex to meet with him in person. One wonders what he has in mind for her if she does.

    But then, he's still determined to control every aspect of the situation. He's not giving her one inch - she's to follow every order exactly to the letter, but he's allowed to violate the orders. He's got to say what app she uses. She's got to do things exactly how he says, and assumes that a judge will allow him to violate orders, not pay his child support, etc. etc. etc. but will penalize her if she doesn't do 100% of everything according to code. And the worst of it is, I don't think he even realizes that he's contradicting himself every time he posts.
  • 12-04-2018, 01:15 PM
    PayrolGuy
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    Next tie he gets banned and creates a new username he should go with "Creepy."
  • 12-04-2018, 02:19 PM
    Mark47n
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    Y'know, it's really kind of creepy how determined he is to force his ex to meet with him in person. One wonders what he has in mind for her if she does.

    But then, he's still determined to control every aspect of the situation. He's not giving her one inch - she's to follow every order exactly to the letter, but he's allowed to violate the orders. He's got to say what app she uses. She's got to do things exactly how he says, and assumes that a judge will allow him to violate orders, not pay his child support, etc. etc. etc. but will penalize her if she doesn't do 100% of everything according to code. And the worst of it is, I don't think he even realizes that he's contradicting himself every time he posts.

    According to previous posts Whatsapp is the application that's been ordered due to its ability to be monitored. I suspect that monitoring ability is why the OP is so keen on not using it.
  • 12-04-2018, 02:28 PM
    PayrolGuy
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    Does Whatsapp have monitoring ability?
  • 12-04-2018, 06:17 PM
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    No. Familywizard for custodial and I to communicate but I refuse to use it or talk to her. I told her not to txt me anymore.

    Phone calls are regular but my child called me always via whatsapp. Now she changed everything to regular number which I cant even listen to my child. She wants me to use skype which i dont use.

    I was at court all day today and pickup my child an hour late from
    School and dropped him off 20 mins late. Shes threatening me to file a violation.

    For late dropoff. Failure to communicate with her to tell her if im late (I called the school) and for dropping him late when bed time is at 8. And for not doing the hw. I took my child to chuck e cheese to have some dad time.

    Seriously?
  • 12-04-2018, 06:36 PM
    cbg
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    So it's okay for you to take her to court when she doesn't use the app you prefer, but she's being unreasonable to take you to court when you violate the orders?
  • 12-05-2018, 02:10 AM
    llworking
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    So it's okay for you to take her to court when she doesn't use the app you prefer, but she's being unreasonable to take you to court when you violate the orders?

    I don't know why we even respond to this guy anymore. He is such a loser.
  • 12-05-2018, 05:40 AM
    jumanji
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    No. Familywizard for custodial and I to communicate but I refuse to use it or talk to her. I told her not to txt me anymore.

    Phone calls are regular but my child called me always via whatsapp. Now she changed everything to regular number which I cant even listen to my child. She wants me to use skype which i dont use.

    I was at court all day today and pickup my child an hour late from
    School and dropped him off 20 mins late. Shes threatening me to file a violation.

    For late dropoff. Failure to communicate with her to tell her if im late (I called the school) and for dropping him late when bed time is at 8. And for not doing the hw. I took my child to chuck e cheese to have some Disney dad time.

    Seriously?

    Fixed it for ya!
  • 12-05-2018, 07:19 AM
    readytoleave
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    Y'know, it's really kind of creepy how determined he is to force his ex to meet with him in person. One wonders what he has in mind for her if she does.

    Particularly there was at least one instance of DV.
  • 12-05-2018, 07:34 AM
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    She dismissed the case so is like never happened
  • 12-05-2018, 07:36 AM
    free9man
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    She dismissed the case so is like never happened

    That's not how it works.
  • 12-05-2018, 10:08 AM
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    She filed this motion what a joke: what is her purpose??


    Noncustodial fails to notify when running late for pickup or drop off. Tuesdays; 12/4/18 pickup @ school an hour late. Noncustodial does not do Homework or read a book with my child and drop him off late. Ex; 12/4/18 took him to chuck e cheese and drop him off at 7:30. Bed time is at 8:00pm. On Saturdays Noncustodial drive straight from work to pickup my child. 10/13 Saturday; pickup an hour and half late and failed to notify as well. Noncustodial refuse to exchange dates my son misses extracurricular& family activities.


    Noncustodial refuse to use parenting app FAMILYWIZARD or speak with child via regular landline or Skype. Insist on using whatsapp, which is not useful for keeping track of calls history. Im requesting platforms that provides documentation for court purposes.

    Noncustodial insist on meeting me in person before enforcing parental responsibilities and than gets insulting if things doesnt go his way.

    How is this contempt of court?
  • 12-05-2018, 10:13 AM
    BooRennie
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    She filed this motion what a joke: what is her purpose??


    Noncustodial fails to notify when running late for pickup or drop off. Tuesdays; 12/4/18 pickup @ school an hour late. Noncustodial does not do Homework or read a book with my child and drop him off late. Ex; 12/4/18 took him to chuck e cheese and drop him off at 7:30. Bed time is at 8:00pm. On Saturdays Noncustodial drive straight from work to pickup my child. 10/13 Saturday; pickup an hour and half late and failed to notify as well. Noncustodial refuse to exchange dates my son misses extracurricular& family activities.


    Noncustodial refuse to use parenting app FAMILYWIZARD or speak with child via regular landline or Skype. Insist on using whatsapp, which is not useful for keeping track of calls history. Im requesting platforms that provides documentation for court purposes.

    Noncustodial insist on meeting me in person before enforcing parental responsibilities and than gets insulting if things doesnt go his way.

    How is this contempt of court?

    Dude, if you don't know, no-one here can explain it to you. The judge might be able to explain this to you as he busts your visitation down to supervised with you paying for it.
  • 12-05-2018, 10:13 AM
    PayrolGuy
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    Her purpose is to get you to either follow the rules or go away. Which are both reasonable requests.

    Looks reasonable to me. You have admitted here to virtually all of her claims. Though I'm not sure what this means.

    "On Saturdays Noncustodial drive straight from work to pickup my child."
  • 12-05-2018, 10:16 AM
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    Shes claiming that I drive straight from work with no hours of sleep to pick up my child. You see that does not make sense at all
  • 12-05-2018, 10:24 AM
    PayrolGuy
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    Shes claiming that I drive straight from work with no hours of sleep to pick up my child. You see that does not make sense at all

    No, that actually does make sense.
  • 12-05-2018, 10:34 AM
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    Shes trying to stop visitation from me. My child needs me. How she doesn’t understand that.
  • 12-05-2018, 10:37 AM
    BooRennie
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    Shes trying to stop visitation from me. My child needs me. How she doesn’t understand that.

    How do you not understand that court orders are laws for you? You have to follow them or suffer the consequences.
  • 12-05-2018, 10:38 AM
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    I filed a violation than she files another one with bunch of lies? The judge will know shes just doing it because I filed one.
  • 12-05-2018, 10:38 AM
    PayrolGuy
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    Shes trying to stop visitation from me. My child needs me. How she doesn’t understand that.

    She tries to get you to follow the court order. How do you not understand that?

    If your posts here are even close to an accurate representation of you in the real world I would question that your daughter does need you in her life. I have a feeling sooner or later the judge is going to figure that out as well.
  • 12-05-2018, 10:47 AM
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    She tries to get you to follow the court order. How do you not understand that?

    If your posts here are even close to an accurate representation of you in the real world I would question that your daughter does need you in her life. I have a feeling sooner or later the judge is going to figure that out as well.

    My boy. The judge wont read that. Thats too much bs
  • 12-05-2018, 10:50 AM
    PayrolGuy
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    If the judge doesn't read that he isn't doing his job.

    The gender of your child really doesn't matter to me or change my opinion of the situation
  • 12-05-2018, 12:44 PM
    hr for me
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    I filed a violation than she files another one with bunch of lies? The judge will know shes just doing it because I filed one.

    actually you have admitted here to everything that she has said!
  • 12-05-2018, 12:47 PM
    readytoleave
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    I wish I knew the OP's exwife so I could point her to this site.
  • 12-09-2018, 01:42 PM
    qwaspolk69
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    No. Familywizard for custodial and I to communicate but I refuse to use it or talk to her. I told her not to txt me anymore.

    Phone calls are regular but my child called me always via whatsapp. Now she changed everything to regular number which I cant even listen to my child. She wants me to use skype which i dont use.

    I was at court all day today and pickup my child an hour late from
    School and dropped him off 20 mins late. Shes threatening me to file a violation.

    For late dropoff. Failure to communicate with her to tell her if im late (I called the school) and for dropping him late when bed time is at 8. And for not doing the hw. I took my child to chuck e cheese to have some dad time.

    Seriously?

    So you are ordered to use Family Wizard but you don't want to use it and you are not communicating with her - that's great co-parenting. (Rolling eyes).

    So if there's nothing ordered about the type of app to use with the child, then you are the issue. What do you mean you can't listen to your child on a new number? Well I guess if you want to talk to your kid you use Skype - or you don't talk to your kid.

    You are quite possibly the biggest sociopath in the world. You seriously need some mental help. Good grief I thought my ex husband was bad - you are far worse.

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    She dismissed the case so is like never happened

    It still happened. Legally it didn't - it doesn't show up in a background check. But it did happen. She likely didn't dismiss anything she just stopped cooperating. My ex husband beat me three times - but only one he was arrested for and plead guilty to. The first one I stopped cooperating and the second one I didn't tell anyone nor call the police. But even though that was not reported, he did in fact beat the shit out of me while I was 5 months pregnant and driving the car. It did happen. Just like whatever you did to your ex wife DID happen. You're an extremely huge POS.
  • 12-10-2018, 04:53 PM
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    I blocked her number as I want her to leave me alone and she just texted this, seriously?

    I see you blocked My child phone for him to call you and I can’t force you to talk to him. Please start helping him with his homework including a book and a summary you may find it online or library.
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