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I told her clearly that I just hope she dont change her mind when the court determines that she refused to communicate
Our son is a very important topic to discuss over the phone or via text.
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I told her clearly that I just hope she dont change her mind when the court determines that she refused to communicate
Our son is a very important topic to discuss over the phone or via text.
SHE hasn’t refused to communicate. YOU have refused to communicate.
You have a very skewed view of life.
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i told her clearly that i just hope she dont change her mind when the court determines that she refused to communicate
our son is a very important topic to discuss over the phone or via text.
she did not refuse to communicate. She told you to use the app.
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Now she is offering me to speak over the phone. But keep refusing to speak in person.
Look, she has no obligation whatsoever to meet you in person. None. There are lots of ways the two of you may communicate that do not involve meeting face-to-face. Your explanation that you want to meet in person because with the app you can't trust that she is the one actually writing the messages is not logical or convincing. First, it doesn't really matter if her spouse is the one writing the stuff for her on the app; presumably the spouse is still conveying what the mother wants and in any event what is said there can be used against her in court because the presumption will be that it is from her.
Even if it was really important to verify that you are talking to her, doing that by phone or video would be all that is needed for that. You'd know that you were talking directly to her. So since a phone call would solve what you say is the problem, insistence on meeting her in person is not logical. It's not necessary to do that to address your problem.
So tell us what is really going on here. What is the real reason you want to meet her in person? Because it certainly isn't the reasons you've already given here.
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Look, she has no obligation whatsoever to meet you in person. None. There are lots of ways the two of you may communicate that do not involve meeting face-to-face. Your explanation that you want to meet in person because with the app you can't trust that she is the one actually writing the messages is not logical or convincing. First, it doesn't really matter if her spouse is the one writing the stuff for her on the app; presumably the spouse is still conveying what the mother wants and in any event what is said there can be used against her in court because the presumption will be that it is from her.
Even if it was really important to verify that you are talking to her, doing that by phone or video would be all that is needed for that. You'd know that you were talking directly to her. So since a phone call would solve what you say is the problem, insistence on meeting her in person is not logical. It's not necessary to do that to address your problem.
So tell us what is really going on here. What is the real reason you want to meet her in person? Because it certainly isn't the reasons you've already given here.
I’ve decided he must be in love with step mom since he’s so obsessed with her...
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I’ve decided he must be in love with step mom since he’s so obsessed with her...
LOL...
However, what I think is happening is that he has lost his power over the mother of his child, and he knows that he has no hope of getting it back unless she has to deal with him alone and in person. He needs in person contact in order to attempt to physically intimidate someone. I have encountered people like him in my lifetime.
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I gave her so much support and she just want to fu*k up my life. Im tired of her causing me trouble. My son is a very important topic and she wants to discuss it over the phone? Come on! I refused all of the expenses she requested I pay half of it. And I asked her not to send me anything until she makes the decision to speak with me in person about our son