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Okay I follow that. Today was our phone call we did camara for almost an hour. It was supposed to be max 10 mins but mom didn’t say anything and allowed me to speak. I dont want her to use this against me. I couldnt hang up the call to my son.
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There is no reason for that to be used against you.
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Based on the domestic violence record can she order a restraining order against me? And also based that I want communication directly with her, I want to annule the divorce and requesting paternity of a child shes saying is not mine.
I have not contact her or stalk her. But based on this?
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Dude, the divorce is not going to be "annulled". That is simply not going to happen. You need to make up your mind to the fact that it doesn't matter what you claim or what you ask or what you want, that divorce is here to stay. It is not going away. Even if you manage somehow to make it happen that way in your home country (I do not know the laws in your country so I can't for sure say it won't happen there) the US is still going to recognize the divorce. YOU WILL STILL STILL BE DIVORCED IN THE US NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS IN YOUR COUNTRY. Got that?
As for paternity of the child that cannot possibly be biologically yours, seems to me that not long ago your ex was offering a paternity test. So, what happened with that?
And yes, your insistence on direct contact very well might give her a basis for a restraining order.
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Your history of DV is a huge factor. The fact that you keep trying to force all of these issues like trying to reverse the divorce and pretend her kid is yours makes you seem unstable and obsessed. You kept talking about going to her house and seeing inside her house. You need to stop all of that nonsense and just visit your kid when you are allowed, follow all of the rules, and pay your child support.
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My question involves a child custody case from the State of: new york
Please stop closing my case im at not disrespect here.
I just find out that my child is attending therapy. Based on the mother because I abandoned him for a year.
Didnt she say he is happy with step mom and draw her on family picture while im excluded?
How can this affect me in court
Dude...you have issues. The child is probably happy with the mom and stepmom - but that doesn't mean there aren't other issues because you left and they feel abandoned. You can't say you abandoned him because of the stepmom. Um no. If that's your kid no one should stop you from seeing your kid. That's a poor excuse of why you abandoned your kid and not one that will impress a judge.
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She also said because the child had demonstrated similar behavior as mine. Talking by myself, anger , impulse behavior. Are you serious?
I abandoned him because step mom interfered.
My attorney charge for even calling him. And appreciate everyone assistance here.
Every lawyer charges for phone calls. I got charged for phone calls and emails. Most of what I paid just to get the custody order modified to take my daughter with me when I have to move was emails and phone calls. That's how it works.
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What my lawyer is saying that stepmom served as an interference between my son & I and mother refused to communicate directly with me. I googled these options and yes these are ground for modification of custody.
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You just keep believing that, pal. You're clearly not believing anything anyone here has to say. Guess you'll find out the hard way.
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What my lawyer is saying that stepmom served as an interference between my son & I and mother refused to communicate directly with me. I googled these options and yes these are ground for modification of custody.
Except that you lied to your attorney. Stepmother did not prevent visitation between you and your son. You prevented it by refusing to deal with stepmother. You chose not to visit your son unless you could directly talk to mom.
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What my lawyer is saying that stepmom served as an interference between my son & I and mother refused to communicate directly with me. I googled these options and yes these are ground for modification of custody.
You know what else is grounds for modification? Harassment. Domestic violence. You also stated that step mother STOPPED being involved in phone calls. You have no case when she stopped doing what she was told to stop doing.