Underage Sex in Texas

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Quoting rliming

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How can you sit and say he rape/molested the girl, obviously it was on both of their parts, I mean the boy is 15, the girl is 12 more then likely about to turn 13, its in human nature. I mean really get over yourselves this is not 1960 and it definately isnt this boys fault all together. Rape/Molestation I think not, I think it was two young kids doing what kids at that age do. Learn to keep a tighter leash on your child and dont try to blame the other party for what she did also. You didnt say he forced her to have sex, you didnt say he broke in and held a knife to her, so how can you say it was rape? Hes not 25 and shes 12 the boy is 15 years old. How many of you here can say you were not making out with your boyfriend/girlfriend at this age? If you knew the boy was trouble then you should of made damn sure that he wasnt to come around your child before this ever happened.

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Uh oh. I thought kids that age were making out with their teachers. EEKS! My mistake.

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Quoting rliming

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How can you sit and say he rape/molested the girl, obviously it was on both of their parts, I mean the boy is 15, the girl is 12 more then likely about to turn 13, its in human nature. I mean really get over yourselves this is not 1960 and it definately isnt this boys fault all together. Rape/Molestation I think not, I think it was two young kids doing what kids at that age do. Learn to keep a tighter leash on your child and dont try to blame the other party for what she did also. You didnt say he forced her to have sex, you didnt say he broke in and held a knife to her, so how can you say it was rape? Hes not 25 and shes 12 the boy is 15 years old. How many of you here can say you were not making out with your boyfriend/girlfriend at this age? If you knew the boy was trouble then you should of made damn sure that he wasnt to come around your child before this ever happened.

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She is about to turn 13 and at the time the trouble he was in didn't seem to be a huge deal. How many boys haven't been in at least one fight in their life? I have tried so many things to keep them apart. We have just bought another house and will be moving out of this school district. I just hope and pray that somehow some way something positive comes of this and right now I have absolutely no idea what that could ever be.

He was on probation for just fighting how naive are you!:wallbang:

Panther hate to say it you are an ass, She wasn't unwilling, if she were you can bet your ass I wouldn't feel this way. This kid isn't a pedafile. And may I remind you I know exactly what he is on probation for I have met with his probation officer. Naive is one thing I'm not which is how I caught her at all of this.

I rather be an @$$ than a poor example of a parent like I am seeing with you. shes 12!!! she isnt old enough to give concent it was rape! This 15 year old took her innocence!! If he was 25 would be ok if she said yes!? My God your a Mother act like one!

I won't allow a stranger who has no idea what I have been through with my child or what I have done to prevent this from happening judge me. My child is in counseling since all of this and I probably should be too. Whether you believe it or not it is not an easy thing to go through. Thank you for beating on someone who was already struggling. Appreciate it.

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Quoting sfinney76

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Panther hate to say it you are an ass, She wasn't unwilling, if she were you can bet your ass I wouldn't feel this way. This kid isn't a pedafile. And may I remind you I know exactly what he is on probation for I have met with his probation officer. Naive is one thing I'm not which is how I caught her at all of this.

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Under the law at 12 she CAN NOT give consent. She is not of an age that she can fully comprehend the consequences of having sex. That is why there is laws on this matter.
Since she can't legally give consent, it was rape.

And I too am baffled by your concern for this boy...bizarre...:(

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Quoting moburkes

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It doesn't matter what you think. It only matters what the law thinks, and the law, like most reasonable human beings, calls it rape.

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Oh its rape so if she was 15 and he was 12 she would be the one that did the rape? I mean people these days are ludicrous, How many of you here can say you actually waited till you were of legal age to have sex. Get real. Your going to ruin this childs life and emotionally scar your child because you didnt have the talk you should a long time ago with her. If the 15 year old boy didnt force her then it isnt rape, I mean you guys act like he hit her over the head and forced her in to it. She arranged to let him in her house, and let him in then took him to her room or whatever. So that right there is gonna look bad on her, all I am saying you dont ruin a CHILDS life for something that happened like this. It was both an indiscretion on each of them and both are to blame for it. Your daughter is just as much the instigator as he is and its human nature for teens to be like this if the communication was there then this wouldnt have happened period. I have 2 nephews age 18 and 13 and neither of them would sneak into a girls house and neither would have unprotected sex, because their parents have already talked to them about the situation. I have a 15 year old daughter and I have had the talk with her and she wouldnt have sex and if she did she knows about protection and to do it with someone she loves. But hey if you guys think a 15 year old that had consensual sex with his girlfriend raped her and the blames all on him then hey lynch him.

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Quoting sfinney76

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I won't allow a stranger who has no idea what I have been through with my child or what I have done to prevent this from happening judge me. My child is in counseling since all of this and I probably should be too. Whether you believe it or not it is not an easy thing to go through. Thank you for beating on someone who was already struggling. Appreciate it.

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It's good that she is in counseling. You should consider it as well if you believe it would be helpful.

As far as the boy, hopefully he will get locked up in juvie so he can receive some help. It appears his parents are not able to control him or he is simply out of control. He certainly should have known better.

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Quoting Baystategirl

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Under the law at 12 she CAN NOT give consent. She is not of an age that she can fully comprehend the consequences of having sex. That is why there is laws on this matter.
Since she can't legally give consent, it was rape.

And I too am baffled by your concern for this boy...bizarre...:(

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As everyone knows girls mature alot faster then boys, and I am sure that the boy didnt force her hand. I mean like I said she let him in her house. I am just saying the boys life shouldnt be ruined for something like this, if he had beat her or something like that then I could see the point but its not entirely his fault.