What Happens at a Hearing on Contempt in a Child Support Case

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Quoting Mtxpro123

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Shes not the mother shes a lesbian who think is a man.

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Are you really this dense or just trolling?

Why do you want to have to pay for ANOTHER kid if you can't afford the one(s) you already have to pay for? You need to keep your pants zipped and then you can avoid these issues of having kids all over the place.

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If im the father shes not suppose to be on it

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You separated 14 months ago, the baby was born last month... Do you not understand how babies happen?

The court will grant me a paternity test. If both are on the birth certificate does both have to present at the court?

I hope they make you pay for that too. Why won't you just leave your ex-wife alone?

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The court will grant me a paternity test. If both are on the birth certificate does both have to present at the court?

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How do you know the court will do that and not KNOW if both parents have to be at court? For the record neither HAVE to be at court.

I have concluded that OP is Foolish as Feces.

I figured that out long ago.

Yes they have to be because they have to grant or deny the paternity test and the judge will make a decision.

And when you both show that you have been separated since January and that she just gave birth in February and shows the birth certificate? Particularly since it is already documented that she gave birth in February since there was a continuance for it? You think a judge will order one then? When she would have had to been pregnant 13 months in order for that to happen? You are ridiculous.

Manatees are pregnant for 13 months. Is your ex wife a manatee, OP?

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Yes they have to be because they have to grant or deny the paternity test and the judge will make a decision.

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So, you are going to request a paternity test at your contempt hearing? Have you talked to your court-appointed attorney about all of this? How was your ex wife pregnant for 13 months?

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Yes they have to be because they have to grant or deny the paternity test and the judge will make a decision.

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The parties don't grant or deny anything. That is the judge's job.

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The court will grant me a paternity test. If both are on the birth certificate does both have to present at the court?

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I hope she has a protection order against you...

So. Court was rescheduled for June. I told the judge that I didn’t pay that amount bc she owes me money from the irs return. She filed an amendment but still we filed together. I also told the judge that I went to the country where we married and filed an annulment of the divorce and that I need a paternity test for the newborn.

We supposedly divorced in 2016 and remarried but that divorce is false

Since I made a payment arrangement for the $1600 the judge does not care about that amount. He says to pay from now on.

So you lied to the judge. Nice.

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So. Court was rescheduled for June. I told the judge that I didn’t pay that amount bc she owes me money from the irs return. She filed an amendment but still we filed together. I also told the judge that I went to the country where we married and filed an annulment of the divorce and that I need a paternity test for the newborn.

We supposedly divorced in 2016 and remarried but that divorce is false

Since I made a payment arrangement for the $1600 the judge does not care about that amount. He says to pay from now on.

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Any money you think she owes you is between the two of you and you don’t take it out of child support. Also, how do you have a false divorce? The holes in your story get larger and larger. Oh, and it might be your kid from 2016 now?

The judge even told her to shut up on two occasions or he would kick her out and close the case. As she was interrupting me.

She divorced me and it was finalized in December 2016. I never signed the divorce neither attended court. She did the divorce behind my back. And was granted custody for our child. All I want is justice.

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The judge even told her to shut up on two occasions or he would kick her out and close the case. As she was interrupting me.

She divorced me and it was finalized in December 2016. I never signed the divorce neither attended court. She did the divorce behind my back. And was granted custody for our child. All I want is justice.

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Again... you've been divorced since 2016 and you think a baby born in 2018 is yours?
I'm also doubting that a judge told her to shut up and that she snuck a divorce behind your back. Did you not respond to any of the legal documents?

Im an asshole not a liar

If you don't attend court are they supposed to force her to stay married to you? When you don't show up to court, you can lose by default.

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If you don't attend court are they supposed to force her to stay married to you? When you don't show up to court, you can lose by default.

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I was not informed. She did it behind my back. She did told me about it but that was it

She told you? Isn't that being at least somewhat informed?
You are full of excuses why nothing is your fault and how she is able to manipulate everything to her advantage. It sounds like you sit around and do nothing until you are backed into a corner, then you lash out and try to claim you are the victim. You did nothing about your child support until you had a hearing, then you tried to pretend you were sorry AND claim you were the father of a baby with a woman you have been divorced from for over a year. You are just trying to start trouble because you know that kid isn't yours and you want to make her look bad. You know the test will show you aren't the dad, but you want to start trouble in the meantime to get her back for leaving you for a woman and taking you to court for child support. Stop being a bitter man and take care of your kid. Bronx County must be a hot mess if they allow this nonsense to go on and don't put a stop to it.

She and wife are threatening to do a protection order against me. For defamation and harrasment. They are blocked everywhere from where they get this? I just want justice.

You are lying to people and telling them that their child is yours. That is kind of frightening behavior. You have an unnatural interest in them and their lives, and particularly their child. You need to back off and just accept your responsibility and start saving your money for child support. I also HIGHLY recommend you receive some kind of counseling and also take a co-parenting class. You need both.

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She and wife are threatening to do a protection order against me. For defamation and harrasment. They are blocked everywhere from where they get this? I just want justice.

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No, you want revenge and you don't care what you do to get that revenge. I would get a protection order against you too. You know that baby is not yours and cannot be yours but you want to upset them. You are making yourself look like a scary stalker.

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She and wife are threatening to do a protection order against me. For defamation and harrasment. They are blocked everywhere from where they get this? I just want justice.

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Given that you posted sufficient information earlier for some of the volunteers here to identify your case, and given your behavior in this discussion, perhaps someone notified your wife's counsel about this discussion?

And before you panic and ask, no they don't delete threads here.

My ex wife does not have a lawyer. Ido. I have the right for a paternity test and the right to annulment of the divorce. That divorce is a fraud. Right now shes on bigamy. Where my new born and son and myself are the victims.

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My ex wife does not have a lawyer. Ido. I have the right for a paternity test and the right to annulment of the divorce. Right now shes on bigamy. Where my new born and son and myself are the victims.

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Divorces don't get annulled. How is her current marriage bigamous? I sincerely doubt you have rights to squat when it comes to her new son. FaF, fer sure.

So now she wants an increase on child support and istaking me to court for that as well. And you guys still think im the bad guy

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So now she wants an increase on child support and istaking me to court for that as well. And you guys still think im the bad guy

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You were issued a support order by the court, yes? Did it say "This is just a suggestion. Pay what you can, when you can." Probably not. It. Is. A. Court. Order. You chose to ignore it. You chose to not pay through the CS system. Why? You just didn't want to.

Do you honestly think this newborn is your biological child? No, no you don't. You said that you had been told she had an IUI with donor sperm. This is not your child, yet you see fit to try to gain paternity. You don't respect the court order compelling you to pay child support, yet you are pushing for an order that gives you some kind of ownership rights. You are picking and choosing what laws and orders to follow and obey based on your own whims. "Oh, this order doesn't matter...but I'll push for THIS one, and I'll make everyone else follow it."

Not once have you expressed any kind of love for either child. There is no expression of loss or regret in your posts. You are only focused on beating the system and getting one over on your ex wife and her new wife.

When I took her for paternity she requested child support so the judge asked me how muxh I pay and I said $70 a week. No w2 no paystub. Now ahes requesting a retrieval of my income as im a via lyft and uber driver but I pay $900 a month for my car.

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When I took her for paternity she requested child support so the judge asked me how muxh I pay and I said $70 a week. No w2 no paystub. Now ahes requesting a retrieval of my income as im a via lyft and uber driver but I pay $900 a month for my car.

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Whelp...she's probably looking to pay your fair share now because you have repeatedly and willfully failed to pay her as ordered. Sorry, sneauxflayke.

You are intentionally ignoring the fact that you KNOW that her kid is not yours and you are purposely trying to pretend it is just to upset her. You mocked her for using a sperm donor to have a baby with her wife. It's not your kid, leave them alone and pay your child support. YES, we all think you are the bad guy. We've been reading your various posts. They need a restraining order and you need psychological services for your issues.

$900 a month for a car?

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When I took her for paternity she requested child support so the judge asked me how muxh I pay and I said $70 a week. No w2 no paystub. Now ahes requesting a retrieval of my income as im a via lyft and uber driver but I pay $900 a month for my car.

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If you can afford a 900 a month car payment you can afford to support your child.

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Quoting readytoleave

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If you can afford a 900 a month car payment you can afford to support your child.

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There is surely some special circumstance that makes his car payment triple what anyone else pays, and it's probably not his fault. In fact, I'm sure he will somehow blame his ex wife. She probably went behind his back and forced the dealership to charge him more and the bank to increase his interest rate.

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Now ahes requesting a retrieval of my income

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Good for her. If you can afford $900/mo for a car? You can pay more in CS.

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There is surely some special circumstance that makes his car payment triple what anyone else pays, and it's probably not his fault.

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I have heard that people who buy their vehicles with Uber's "help" get taken to the cleaners but $900 seems excessive unless he got a limo. But affording $900/mo strictly as an Uber/Lyft driver while also paying your own taxes, SS, medicare/caid and all that jazz must be pretty challenging.

You guys never believe my words.

https://imgur.com/a/1IprY

https://imgur.com/a/1IprY

We didn't necessarily not believe you have a $900/mo car payment. We were just saying it is dumb and no excuse not to pay your other responsibilities.

I pay $900 a month for car. Increasing my child support is not fair. Shes basing that she doesnt work and child is on private school. Put him n public school. They decide that not me.

Also they have to calculate wife income if she doesnt work. Right?