Ex- Claims That Ring Given as a Gift Was Stolen

My question involves court procedures for the state of: New York

My boyfriend has a crazy ex who gifted him a ring. She seen I posted a picture of the ring which was about a month ago and since has been threatening him to call the cops. She has went through with her threats and I was contacted by a detective stating I should give it back. I explained to the detective that she is a scorned ex and when she contacted me 3 months ago via social media that she has said to me on multiple times in the messages that she brought it it for him as a gift I also explained after I said I had all his property with she said if I have the ring that I should keep it then she goes on to say she will just report it stolen from her house and then moments later she said she had it taken care of and it's insured she getting her money back. Also in that same conversation I asked did she see him before he left (he had to go away he left Aug 1 won't be back until December)she says yes I asked was he wearing the ring she said yes he was and also admits to them having sex with him that day he left with the ring. I sent this to the detective will this be enough to prove it's a gift. I truly believe it's a civil issue I also have pictures of him wearing the ring that was taken in April and pictures with her son as well as her with him as far back as may wearing the ring. Will what I seen the detective be enough to prove she is being a scorned Petty woman asking for a gift back and lying about it being stolen.

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Quoting Loyalgirlfriend

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My question involves court procedures for the state of: New York

My boyfriend has a crazy ex who gifted him a ring. She seen I posted a picture of the ring which was about a month ago and since has been threatening him to call the cops. She has went through with her threats and I was contacted by a detective stating I should give it back. I explained to the detective that she is a scorned ex and when she contacted me 3 months ago via social media that she has said to me on multiple times in the messages that she brought it it for him as a gift I also explained after I said I had all his property with she said if I have the ring that I should keep it then she goes on to say she will just report it stolen from her house and then moments later she said she had it taken care of and it's insured she getting her money back. Also in that same conversation I asked did she see him before he left (he had to go away he left Aug 1 won't be back until December)she says yes I asked was he wearing the ring she said yes he was and also admits to them having sex with him that day he left with the ring. I sent this to the detective will this be enough to prove it's a gift. I truly believe it's a civil issue I also have pictures of him wearing the ring that was taken in April and pictures with her son as well as her with him as far back as may wearing the ring. Will what I seen the detective be enough to prove she is being a scorned Petty woman asking for a gift back and lying about it being stolen.

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Why the heck did you post a picture of the ring at all? Did you not know that it might stir up a mess when you did so?

And your question is relevant why it's my page we not friends the real question if you wanna know is why is she stalking my page

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Quoting Loyalgirlfriend

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Will what I seen the detective be enough to prove she is being a scorned Petty woman asking for a gift back and lying about it being stolen.

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The only person who can answer that question for you is the detective.

It sounds like you really need to get your boyfriend to speak to the detective. since your only claim to the ring would be based on his right to possess it and the only person with a claim to the ring has not supported your statement, the detctive may tend to side with the ex.

I would hesitate returning it to the ex if your boyfriend does have all rights to the ring but if it comes down to you being arrested for it, give it back and let your boyfriend fight for it after he returns.


it sounds like you need to adjust the security settings and edit your friends list on Facebook. A person can view any Facebook Page they have legal access to.

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Quoting jk

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It sounds like you really need to get your boyfriend to speak to the detective. since your only claim to the ring would be based on his right to possess it and the only person with a claim to the ring has not supported your statement, the detctive may tend to side with the ex.

I would hesitate returning it to the ex if your boyfriend does have all rights to the ring but if it comes down to you being arrested for it, give it back and let your boyfriend fight for it after he returns.


it sounds like you need to adjust the security settings and edit your friends list on Facebook. A person can view any Facebook Page they have legal access to.

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It's not that he doesn't support my claims it's that he is not here to defend himself I'm just making sure I'm not getting caught in the middle (even though I am partially already in the middle) I would like to clear it up before he get back but unfortunately after I sent the stuff the detective went on vacation

You need to give the detective your boyfriends contact information. Text message and email messages still have to be confirmed as his by him.

You also might want to buy some punctuation because your messages are very hard to understand with no breaks between thoughts or statements.

And you need to lock down the privacy on your social media accounts so you can stay out of her drama.

Such a tangled web....

Thanks but the information was more than enough it didn't need to be handled by him I did it and now it's no longer a criminal issue. And he didn't even need to be contacted he never even spoke to the detective. And I prefer to be able to to post what I want when I want it's my page and if it's open she has a free right to continue and be a stalker via social media. There is a thing called freedom of speech and I have that right. However, she doesn't have the right to be a real life freaking stalker worried about me and my life. I will continue to do as I please and I guess she'll continue to stalk.

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Quoting llworking

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This is actually not "forum chatting" in the classic sense. This is a forum for someone to ask for legal advice. We are all volunteers here and do not get paid for our time. If you write grammatically and with clarity it helps us understand what you need and what kind of advice that we are able to provide to you. I cannot imagine why anyone would not realize that using the same kind of professionalism that you would use at work would be the appropriate way to communicate on a forum like this one.

This is not a place to "chat".

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I greatly appreciate your approach. Although, to say it's not a forum for chatting I disagree with it's exactly what it is. This place didn't come off like a bunch of professional just a group of people chatting and giving advice to the best of their knowledge. My original message had periods and points of where you knew to breath or whatever. But to understand what is written doesn't need punctuation's yeah it could be a big run on sentence but you could understand what was written only thing would be the problem is there would be no structure and organization. I completely get some people prefer it even on social media. But you said it's not for chatting somebody should tell them not to be bullies and try and be funny because somebody may not write or speak the way they seem fit people come for help not school if they can't help they should move on.