How to Prosecute an Abusive Ex-

I was in a relationship with an abusive man for 10 years.

I never reported him for physically abusing me, psychologically abusing me, and eventually trying to kill me.

He robbed the neighbor and then left town.

A year later, I began receiving threatening texts from various phone numbers. He was demanding a chess set that I own, that he left in the custody of my best friend for 8+ years and she decided to gift me.

Upon not giving him the chess set, which he called her and asked for and then texted me demanding, my cat was abducted, with an incriminating text sent, a key and our wedding ring left behind for evidence.

After 1 day the cat was returned down the street, much further than his usual range. Another neighbor reports seeing a silver SUV other than my best friend stalking around my driveway over the last couple of months.

Secondly, many privacy invasions have occurred online in the last few months, several online accounts being hacked and some personal data deleted.

I blew it off until 2 weeks ago, when my facebook account was hacked, and naked pictures and sexual conversations between me and a guy I dated were sent to several people and posted publicly.

Upon receiving a phone call from the guy who I had the sexual relationship with's current girlfriend, I asked to see copies of what was sent to whom about me, because I could see nothing on my end of my computer or facebook accounts.

She gave me "part" of the evidence, and then proceeded to block me on facebook and change her number, as did her boyfriend, my EX.

He wants to claim that we never had a relationship, and refused to not delete the evidence against my will. Evidance Spoilage is illegal here in California and in Missouri, as stated in many won cases.

After reporting the hacking incident to the police, I was informed that the case would have been much easier to peruse in the means of finding my EX husband, with more evidance, and if sooner reported.

My other EX who is withholding evidence from me refused to delete the evidance against my will, and refuses to give me the evidance.

I have heard through friends of my recent EX and is current girlfriend that they are telling everyone that they have a restraining order on me.

I have contacted the courthouse and found none filed. If one is filed, I am going to travel and attend the hearing to show evidance in my favor.

What I really need, is an attorney that can help me get communication happening between California, Montana (where my abusive EX lives) and Missouri (where my current Ex lives) so that we can compile the most evidence and figure out what really happened, and persue criminal and civil cases against both Aaron (my abusive ex) and Derek (my current Ex.

I have much evidance compiled, printed and saved on my computer in both cases. Thank You!

If you believe that your ex- has committed criminal acts, you may report those acts and provide whatever evidence you have of his responsibility to the police. The police are most likely to act in relation to recent acts, where there is reasonably compelling evidence that your ex- is responsible.

If you have no evidence, and are trying to compile evidence, then it sounds like you need to consult some private investigators about the potential of finding evidence and a budget for their investigation.

I don't know why you haven't made any reports yet. If you think that your ex is stalking or harassing you and stealing your stuff you need to report it to the police immediately so they can investigate it. Otherwise it's not going to stop.

Yes it would have been easier to pursue had you reported it immediately.

What "evidence" does your other ex have? It's quite possible that your ex and his girlfriend have a restraining order - so you probably should stop contacting him. You should have been notified if someone filed a protection order against you. If there's nothing at the courthouse...maybe they filed it at another courthouse.

If you want an attorney you have to look them up on Google. You won't find any on here. How can you have a current ex? An ex is an ex. Look up attorneys in your area who give free consultations and start there.

"Current" = "Most recent".