Child Abuse Charges

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Quoting N2TECHNO

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He got some bruises on his ass and back of legs. He was paddled not beat.

Never was he punched,kicked,slapped,caged, denied food, or denied use of any personal needs. I am with the mother, the kid has discipline problems almost everyday at school. I have the school ledger to prove it. He has since been diagnosed bi polar, opposite defiant disorder, and is taking meds now.

Also they facilitated that the mother and I get into arguments and it wakes him up. We never get into any arguments and when he is sleeping he never wakes up. Thats why putting him in the corner never works.


BTW, ARE you a liberal and won't let a kid learn right from wrong. Thats why todays kids are have sex in classrooms and out of control because there is NO discipline in today's household. Did you not ever get a bruise on your butt when you were a kid?

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I was not beaten as a child nor do I beat my children. If a LEGAL STRANGER attempted to "paddle" my kids I would shove the paddle down his throat! You and the "mother" of this boy both deserve prison. If he has these Neurological issues what you are doing is even MORE sick and vile! You are beating him like a dog for behavior he has very little or no control over. If the "mother" of this poor boy had, had a NEEDED Neuropsychological Evaluation done an education and behavior plan would have been issued and recommendations given. And I can GUARANTEE that the Child Psychologist would NOT have recommended "paddling" him till black and blue for negative behavior!! This kid has neurological problems, that does not make him a "bad" child. He CAN NOT control his outbursts, and it seem neither can you!

BTW...I have one daughter on her way to Vassar and another with PDD, both are lovely and well behaved girls that excell in school, and have never had sex in school! And all this without EVER having been assaulted by their parents!

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Quoting N2TECHNO

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He got some bruises on his ass and back of legs. He was paddled not beat.

Never was he punched,kicked,slapped,caged, denied food, or denied use of any personal needs. I am with the mother, the kid has discipline problems almost everyday at school. I have the school ledger to prove it. He has since been diagnosed bi polar, opposite defiant disorder, and is taking meds now.

Also they facilitated that the mother and I get into arguments and it wakes him up. We never get into any arguments and when he is sleeping he never wakes up. Thats why putting him in the corner never works.


BTW, ARE you a liberal and won't let a kid learn right from wrong. Thats why todays kids are have sex in classrooms and out of control because there is NO discipline in today's household. Did you not ever get a bruise on your butt when you were a kid?

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Actually, I got frequent spankings....often with a belt, but I do not recall EVER having bruises of ANY kind! Also, only my parents ever spanked me. If I had doubts about whether your treatment of your girlfriend's child were beatings or just spankings.....your comment about using "military type" violence to "bring the truth" pretty much dissolved any benefit of the doubt I may have considered.

It seems pretty obvious to me that a child that suffers from the emotional issues you mention would not respond well to beatings by Mom's boyfriend. Leave the kids alone. You have NO right to discipline them at all.

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Quoting Just Breath

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Actually, I got frequent spankings....often with a belt, but I do not recall EVER having bruises of ANY kind! Also, only my parents ever spanked me. If I had doubts about whether your treatment of your girlfriend's child were beatings or just spankings.....your comment about using "military type" violence to "bring the truth" pretty much dissolved any benefit of the doubt I may have considered.

It seems pretty obvious to me that a child that suffers from the emotional issues you mention would not respond well to beatings by Mom's boyfriend. Leave the kids alone. You have NO right to discipline them at all.

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Thanks for being fair and bias. I don't like being accused of something so serious. Excessive corporal punishment, I would agree. Abuse no. I paddled him not knowing of the bruises. It was not a big hit at all just a tap on the ass. Even the arresting officer felt this was something that could have been controlled without a serious issue of arrest. I contacted a friend of mine who is a federal agent and read him everything and agreed they wanted to hang me out to dry.

My military training is the only reason I didn't loose control. Had I just left the house to calm down and could have gotten in just as much trouble. The mother was not home. They CPS workers added false info to build a case otherwise it would of been a simple spanking causing bruises. Thats exactly what it says on police report. The officer agreed they were going over board but you can't do anything. Politics ruin your career as a police officer! Some of you may know what I am talking about!

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Quoting N2TECHNO

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Thanks for being fair and bias. I don't like being accused of something so serious. Excessive corporal punishment, I would agree. Abuse no. I paddled him not knowing of the bruises. It was not a big hit at all just a tap on the ass. Even the arresting officer felt this was something that could have been controlled without a serious issue of arrest. I contacted a friend of mine who is a federal agent and read him everything and agreed they wanted to hang me out to dry.

My military training is the only reason I didn't loose control. Had I just left the house to calm down and could have gotten in just as much trouble. The mother was not home. They CPS workers added false info to build a case otherwise it would of been a simple spanking causing bruises. Thats exactly what it says on police report. The officer agreed they were going over board but you can't do anything. Politics ruin your career as a police officer! Some of you may know what I am talking about!

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Oh, but you DID lose control the moment you put a paddle to the boy. I agree with Bay that the boy has some emotional/behavioral issues that aren't being addressed properly by "excessive corporal punishment". You can also use some pointers on effective parenting and anger management.