19 year old Male and 15 year old Female
I met this girl and got to know her before her age. We started off as friends and her parents were cool until we started hanging more often, but now we're crazy for eachother. She'll be 16 in June and ill be 20 in Nov.. We are 3years and 6 months apart. We haven't had sex and dont plan on it but we have engaged in oral sex once. Her parents dont want us talking anymore and her dad told her if he found out we had any kind of contact afterwards he would report me. If there is nothing happening and he were to see us together would he be able to file charges? Even if there was nothing sexual involved? Once she turns 16 is able to consent to having a relationship? What are my choices here? Please Help, thank you.
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Laws are different in each state. When it comes to statutory rape laws, oral sex counts.
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You failed to say what state your in. Furthermore I know of no state that states a 15 year old is old enough to give consent although I could be wrong. I suggest you end the rel;ationship unless of course registering as a sex offender is on your "to do" list.
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I live in florida. She turns 16 in june. What is this i hear if she is 16 or over there must be a a maximum of 4 years between us...? Cause theres 3 years.
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I live in florida. She turns 16 in june. What is this i hear if she is 16 or over there must be a a maximum of 4 years between us...? Cause theres 3 years.
Yes...But the fact is that she is NOW just 15 and you had oral sex with a minor...Because she turns 16 in June does not erase the sex crime you committed. The age of consent means that until a minor reaches that age s/he can not legally consent to sex. So LEGALLY you raped her. The SOL will not stop running on this until she reaches 28, I believe it is 10 years after she turns 18 in Florida. Better hope you don't get her angry...There is another thread on here where a 19 yo has an ex that is threatening to press charges.
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I guess that slipped his mind:rolleyes:
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OK. I really like her, so i will wait. Right now im not concerned about the past only the present and future. What im asking is once she turns sixteen will it be ok for us to date, and date only without her parents consent?
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OK. I really like her, so i will wait. Right now im not concerned about the past only the present and future. What im asking is once she turns sixteen will it be ok for us to date, and date only without her parents consent?
No...You can date without her parents consent when she is an adult. While she is a minor living under THEIR roof, she had to abide their rules. If you persist they can pursue legal action to keep you away from their daughter.
And don't be so caviler about the past. You committed Statutory Rape, and there is a lot of time left that this will hang over your head. Stay away from girl-children. Date someone your own age, unless you want to end up with a Sexual Offense and have to register as a Sex Offender for the rest of your life.
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You are also missing the point that you have already had sex with her. If her father knows he can still report you even after she turns 16 because you were having sex with a minor before... get it. That means you are already on the hook as a sex offender and you had better adhere to the fathers wishes. Beside unless you have a somewhat diminished capacity for thought, what could you possibly see in a 15 year old girl anyway. Oh yeah only sex which by the way in the eyes of a judge makes you a predator.
14 yr old girl and 19 yr old guy
I am 14 about to be 15 . My boyfriend is 19 yrs old. We have had NO NO NO sexual activites. at all. Is he still in danger about going to jail... I really care about him, and I think he does. My family says I am too young to know, but unlike other older guys I've dated he is not making me feel bad about not having sex with him. I told him once that I wanted to wait he agreed, because he said he loved me but was not willing to serve so and so years for that. He said it wasn't worth going to prison over
Is he still endager about going to prisonl?
P.S. he still lives with his aprents he is graduating this year my aunt consents of it. and so does his parents..
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Unless the two of you engage in any sex act no. However if yor parents wish they can seek a protective order against him. This would legally bar him from being in contact with you
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I hope that never comes to it.. My aunt likes him alot. I hope. So.. Ya i don't think she will. She hates going to court or the police due to other reasons. ;] Thank you very much.
Sarah
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He is not in danger of going to jail if he has not commited any offenses. However, sex and hormones are a strong attractant and many people who have had the best of intentions get tripped up by this. For his sake and yours you should cool the relationship for a while and don't meet outside of church or other community events to keep things on the safe side. Plus your question would be better off as a thread of its own.:cool: