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Ohiogal
Hi Free9man!
Because I am an attorney that is extremely busy and I don't have time to be all sweetness and light and say, "I am so so sorry but you need to understand that there are legal news establishments in every county that publish legal notices even if the common layperson doesn't read them or subscribe. I am also sorry that you have not read a lot about the law and understand the legal requirements when someone wants to change a name and how that works or what the rules (local and civil) as well as the statutes require for not just service but to change the name. Forgive me for having more knowledge than you and getting it and trying to help while being so sickingly sweet polite that I give myself cavities while I try to give you the education on the law that it took me several years and thousands of dollars to obtain."
Happy now?
Again I apologize for offending you somehow but if you are so busy why are you on this forum? People just come here for help and obviously do not have a lot of legal experience if they are coming here. Many are pretty desperate to find information. So I do not feel you need to be rude to many people who are simply asking questions.
I hope you do not treat clients so abrasively.
I posted on here because of a friend who did have an experience changing his last name and grew up in Nebraska but lived in South Dakota when he changed his name. That is why I posted. I do not think it is unreasonable that most people do not know these publications exist. As a lawyer, you could have simply educated on this subject instead of being so rude. That is all I was stating.
No one asked you to educate them on the entire legal system either. But you did sign up on a public forum that is entitled "Legal Help." If you cannot handle some questions people ask or realize that some people are not as 'intelligent' as you are, then perhaps you should ignore some questions.
I am done now. Apologies for offending you with my comments.
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You entered this thread because you didn't understand a question the OP asked, and you have done little more than bicker with the site's volunteers since they correct you. If people get curt with you when you convolute their efforts to help others, by posting about things you don't understand, all I can say is "deal with it."
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Mr. Knowitall
You entered this thread because you didn't understand a question the OP asked, and you have done little more than bicker with the site's volunteers since they correct you. If people get curt with you when you convolute their efforts to help others, by posting about things you don't understand, all I can say is "deal with it."
I do not see how I am bickering. I apologized for not understanding after it was clarified and was given further harsh responses that were childish and unnecessary. I do not see how I "convoluted" any efforts to help someone else out.
I simply pointed out that one person seems to respond to multiple people harshly and usually for no reason at all when all they want is assistance. She stated she is extremely busy as a lawyer but yet she is posting on here and condescending people who came to a forum about legal help looking for legal help.
I have read through a lot of different threads and seen other people call her out on this behavior. I am not sure if you are friends outside this forum or what is going on but there was and is no need to tear people down for simply asking questions or if they do not understand things. I am sure I can guarantee even the so-called experts on this forum do not know every single aspect of every single law in this country.
I have apologized multiple times for my lack of understanding and if I offended anyone and likely did not need to but I did. There is no more need to continue with this. If people have a hard time assisting someone else, they probably should not be on a public forum specifically for helping people.
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You seem to have a difficult time understanding what others are asking in this forum and assisting them with relevant information. Ponder that for a while.
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Mr. Knowitall
You seem to have a difficult time understanding what others are asking in this forum and assisting them with relevant information. Ponder that for a while.
To each his or her own. I have provided relevant information in other threads, however. I did admit to being wrong in this thread. I do not know why there is a continuation on pointing that out or doing it so rudely. That was all I stated. Again I apologized - let us move on.
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qwaspolk69
If people have a hard time assisting someone else, they probably should not be on a public forum specifically for helping people.
That's what we're trying to tell you ...
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Dogmatique
That's what we're trying to tell you ...
Perhaps someone needs to tell some of you this also.
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qwaspolk69
Perhaps someone needs to tell some of you this also.
Now now. You just did an awesome post a bit further up. Don't ruin the day. :cool: