Re: Recourse When the Other Parent and a Social Worker Violate Court Orders
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mr Knowitall is the type of person whom has a holier than though attitude and feels better about himself by putting others down. Its a defense mechanism used when a person doesnt have much self esteem. The proof is in his comments and very disrespectful attitude. Maybe you should work for Child Welfare services. You have the personality. You give comments that are totally unecessary and unrelated. And your view of someone that you dont even know is considered to be a "Drug Addict" then you must not know me. I am not a drug addict. I am an Individual, a human being, whom treats others as individuals also which includes being compassionate, empathetic. NONJUDGEMENTAL (UNLIKE YOU), AND i HAVE AN ADDICTIVE PERSONALITY. Calling someone a drug addict makes you seem extremely uneducated and maybe you should not be a senior Member. You dont show the ability to know how to interact with people, even through a computer. Maybe you should do some soul searching and try to figure out what is really making you act in such a manner. It's very offensive and I have seen others on here reflect the same opinion. But ban opinion is an opinion. Maybe you can go ask the lab that actually cut the hair off of my hair and stood in the bathroom while i peed in a cup. LOL. Funny.
You have no case. End of story.
(although it's becoming rather obvious how you ended up in this mess to begin with)
Re: Recourse When the Other Parent and a Social Worker Violate Court Orders
he was disrespectful on so many levels and giving advice for free is something that should be commended. I do alot of things in the community for free. He gives anything but legal advice. Obviously this is not a place I feel is positive at all. His name says it all. Being knowledgable is knowing something to be true. He assumes things about my situation yet he is not knowledgable. This forum is about facts not opinions and im running into a few people people whom do not get that. Knowitall and you being two of them.
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You have no case. End of story.
(although it's becoming rather obvious how you ended up in this mess to begin with)
Like I said people on here give opinions and disrespectful remarks rather than facts...if you just knew the whole story. But I wouldnt waste my time on this website to do that just so I can be put down for trying to get the facts not opinions on my situation.
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mr Knowitall is the type of person whom has a holier than though attitude and feels better about himself by putting others down.
If the facts didn't make you look like a drug addict, we wouldn't be talking about your drug use, your drug tests, or the fact that your children have been placed with your allegedly abusive ex- with your being the subject of protective proceedings and allowed only minimal contact with your children. Throwing temper tantrums and calling me names won't change any of that.
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Maybe you should work for Child Welfare services. You have the personality.
You mean, they're not stupid, either?
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Calling someone a drug addict makes you seem extremely uneducated and maybe you should not be a senior Member.
You need to back down from your childish temper tantrum and actually read what I said. I didn't call you a drug addict. I simply pointed out -- even if we in this forum take your story at face value -- how your story of two false negatives on two different drug tests, during a period when you were taking narcotics, is going to look to anybody with a whit of knowledge about addiction and drug testing. The facts are what they are.
If you are as irrational and hostile with the case worker as you have been in this forum, it's not surprising that you are having difficulties working with the case worker.
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Maybe you can go ask the lab that actually cut the hair off of my hair and stood in the bathroom while i peed in a cup. LOL. Funny.
No, it's not funny. If you had two different drug tests on two different modalities come back with false negatives -- as you say occurred -- then you either went to the world's least competent drug lab or you found a way to beat the tests.
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This is her husband if you cannot maintain a civil and positive way of speaking then please do not speak at all. Not to mention that you obviosly play favorites in the fact that you don't even realize the tests were taken and completed by the lab provided by and run by Human Services Agency. Therefore the system that you claim to support, is the same system you are calling incompetent. She already is having enough of a hard time with what's been going on. She came to this forum for help, not belittlement. If this is the way you attempt to help people then I suggest you take some form of formal training in the handling of people before you try starting an intellectual forum, when you don't even know the first thing about talking with people empathetically. You have now upset my wife to the point of tears, what you are doing and the way you are acting is in fact abuse, and a form of harassment. I am now ending this conversation and I would strongly advise you to take care what you do and say next, as I can and do have the ability of reporting it. Cyber crimes have different laws and I am well aware of them. I would strongly suggest that you take to heart what it is that you are doing, and before claiming to "knowitall" I would (if I were you) pursue some credentials.
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This is her husband if you cannot maintain a civil and positive way of speaking then please do not speak at all. Not to mention that you obviosly play favorites in the fact that you don't even realize the tests were taken and completed by the lab provided by and run by Human Services Agency. Therefore the system that you claim to support, is the same system you are calling incompetent. She already is having enough of a hard time with what's been going on. She came to this forum for help, not belittlement. If this is the way you attempt to help people then I suggest you take some form of formal training in the handling of people before you try starting an intellectual forum, when you don't even know the first thing about talking with people empathetically. You have now upset my wife to the point of tears, what you are doing and the way you are acting is in fact abuse, and a form of harassment. I am now ending this conversation and I would strongly advise you to take care what you do and say next, as I can and do have the ability of reporting it. Cyber crimes have different laws and I am well aware of them. I would strongly suggest that you take to heart what it is that you are doing, and before claiming to "knowitall" I would (if I were you) pursue some credentials.
Oh please, knock it off. Melodrama isn't going to help you. Your wife has not been "abused" on this forum. There is no harassment. Your childish threats are just that - childish.
Now. My background is in Big Pharma. Your wife's version of events does not support the conclusion and clearly the courts are in agreement with my statement. Why is that? Exactly.
You're both misunderstanding (and I'm being generous there) the law, and I'm including the bizarre statements by your wife. So my advice is to grow a thicker skin, get help for your passive-aggressive childish little threats and pay an attorney to tolerate your nonsense.
Have a lovely night! :)
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The Department of Health and Human Services certifies drug testing labs, but it does not own and operate labs that test people for the use of controlled substances.
I'm pretty amazed by the size of the childish temper tantrum that is being thrown over the fact that the drug lab produced two false negatives on two separate tests made on two different modalities. Seriously -- if you want to argue that the lab is competent and did the testing properly, given that you have admitted that the results were wrong, what conclusion do you believe that leaves open?