Will Child Support be Based on Your Historic Income if You Move to Another Country

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Anyway, thank for all your replies.

I have a feeling that the people responding here somehow are very mean-spirited. I don't know why. I have been to court twice. Easily defeated my wife because she lies a lot and these days(email tracking, text message tracking) it is very easy to show she is a liar.

The judge is a human. He is not a machine. Maybe I am just lucky. You guys treat the law as a machine. Maybe you guys have more experience. It's good to hear from you guys' warnings though instead to hear them from the judge on the court.

Thank you.

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Okay you need to understand some very, very basic things here.

1. Lying is not illegal, and in family court the parties are almost expected to lie to the judge.
2. The judge is human, but if he has one very believable party before him and not the other, he's going to go with what the present party wants.
3. He IS human, after all.
4. You're not the only immigrant here who has gone through divorce American-style.

You have absolutely no idea what you're doing, and you have even less idea what happens during the divorce process in this country.

I suggest you learn - and fast.

Thank you.

"1. Lying is not illegal, and in family court the parties are almost expected to lie to the judge." --- hmm, how about perjury?

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Thank you.

"1. Lying is not illegal, and in family court the parties are almost expected to lie to the judge." --- hmm, how about perjury?

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Rarely, rarely prosecuted for events happening in family court.

OK. I don't expect she will be arrested on the court for perjury. However, if I can show that she lies about this, that, .. , almost everything, that will make the judge on my side, right?

She lies about EVERYTHING, without any sense of shame. I can understand people lie occasionally just to cover something. She lies from 1st sentence to the last sentence. When the judge pointed out on the court, she just stared at the judge, with an expression "what is wrong with you? Mr. Judge". In our daily life, she will just reply to me "You are such a liar. I never trust you". She always uses offence to replace her defence/explanation. In another words, she always accuses me the wrong doing when it is exactly she who did such a thing.

I am a scientist studying human brain. I believe that she needs medical treatment. I have asked the authority and they say there is no means to force her to see a psychiatrist unless she herself is willing to. I think this is not right. Should people wait for such a patient to pull out a gun and shoot?

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OK. I don't expect she will be arrested on the court for perjury. However, if I can show that she lies about this, that, .. , almost everything, that will make the judge on my side, right?

She lies about EVERYTHING, without any sense of shame. I can understand people lie occasionally just to cover something. She lies from 1st sentence to the last sentence. When the judge pointed out on the court, she just stared at the judge, with an expression "what is wrong with you? Mr. Judge". In our daily life, she will just reply to me "You are such a liar. I never trust you". She always uses offence to replace her defence/explanation. In another words, she always accuses me the wrong doing when it is exactly she who did such a thing.

I am a scientist studying human brain. I believe that she needs medical treatment. I have asked the authority and they say there is no means to force her to see a psychiatrist unless she herself is willing to. I think this is not right. Should people wait for such a patient to pull out a gun and shoot?

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And with that little diatribe, you've just made me doubt your own mental health. Expect the court to see what I'm seeing, and expect your poor wife to get everything she asks for along with full custody of the children.

You are dangerous.

It may sounds like I am personally insult my wife's integrity here, verbally. On the court, the evidence(pictures, video recordings, emails, text messages) speaks, not my words. I found it hard to believe she can get what she wants on the court through completely lying.

And of course, the fact that she does not view everything the same way that you do does not mean that she is lying. If she has a different opinion than you do and expresses it; if she honestly believes that what she is saying is true, then that is not a lie even if you disagree.

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It may sounds like I am personally insult my wife's integrity here, verbally. On the court, the evidence(pictures, video recordings, emails, text messages) speaks, not my words. I found it hard to believe she can get what she wants on the court through completely lying.

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No, she'll get what she wants because you won't be there.

Then again, you're seemingly intent on making this a walk in the park for her so...

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I am a scientist studying human brain.

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Oh, cool. Look up this word (as it pertains to psychiatry): Projection.

Then go look in the mirror.