Building a Better Relationship With a Child During Visitation

Is joint legal feasible enough living in 2 states rather far from each other? If mom remains the primary it is more likely that, while on paper they have joint legal custody, the judge may very well give mom either final decision making or sole legal on certain items such as schooling, doctors, medical, and such. Perhaps not items such as religion or other items that don't really affect daily life.

Just something to think about

Getting a passport generally requires joint permission or an equivalent court order.

Mom has a lot of points in her favor as the primary care giver ..even if it was due to her failure to live with you..as you see it. ( My mom was not always happy with where my father was stationed! )

I suggest you use best darn counsel you can afford...