Statutory Rape of a Young Child

My question involves criminal law for the state of: Indiana

I am 36 years old, male. I am in a relationship with a 13 year old, female. The relationship was initiated by her. I have known her since she was 5, we started calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend when she was 6, and we had 'sex' for the first time when she was 7, if you can even call it sex. the sex was also initiated by her. I cant remember when we started having real sex with penetration. we progressed very slowly, and i never hurt her in any way.

honestly, this is the first and only young girl i have ever been attracted to. She is very mature, and she acts like a young woman, not to mention that she is absolutely gorgeous! We are still together... as long as she wants to have a relationship with me, i will stay with her. We talked about how people change a lot as they get older, and we both want to do our best to stay together through all those changes, until it is safe for us to tell our secret.

She is very much aware that what are doing is illegal, and since the very beginning we both make sure to cover our tracks. But we dont want to hide this forever!

1. how old should she be before we tell people that we are in a relationship?
2. how old must she be before we tell people how long we have been together?

In both cases, we will both deny that we ever had sex. You dont need sex for a relationship!

Yes, i know this is not an ideal situation. But it happened, so i simply want to know what we have to do, because this is not something we want to keep a secret for our entire lives.

You should seek professional counseling as what you have done and what you are considering continuing to do, are not only illegal, but unhealthy. Let me get this straight, you, as a 30 year old, had "sex" (if you can even call it that), with a 7 year old? That about sum it up? You have some serious issues.
PS - did it ever occur to you Mr. Child Abuser (yes, that's what you are), that a 7 year old doesn't have the mental capacity to "consent" to anything? There is a reason why you need to reach a defined age in order to enter into contracts and agreements. A 7 year old can't consent to a damn thing.
PPS - wtf is wrong with you that you interpreted the actions of a SEVEN YEAR OLD to be that of initiating sex? Any even if that were true, why didn't you exercise the responsibility that you had AS AN ADULT to educate the young, impressionable girl, as to why that action would be inappropriate?
PPPS - don't even try to justify your actions or this forum will eat you alive.

This has GOT to be a troll. This guy CANNOT be serious!

The whole idea is too sick to consider. Perhaps Admin might consider getting his IP ... I suggest the appropriate authorities be notified.

Nobody here is going to help you commit crimes. Hopefully, you are a troll, albeit a crude one.

Time for the Christmas Trolls to start bounding around as schools are out.

Im aware. I dont need the lecture. Remember, there are two people in this relationship. Do you think my girlfriend needs counseling too, for serious issues?

This is not a troll, as much as i wish it was not true. It happened, and we are both okay with that.

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Quoting stounch

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Im aware. I dont need the lecture. Remember, there are two people in this relationship. Do you think my girlfriend needs counseling too, for serius issues?

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No, you don't need a lecture - you need to go to prison.

But, since I am pretty sure you're simply putting us on, I hope Admin shows up and gives you the boot shortly.

I'm out.

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Im aware. I dont need the lecture. Remember, there are two people in this relationship. Do you think my girlfriend needs counseling too, for serious issues?

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If this is true, hell yes she needs counseling. She has been repeatedly raped by a man 20 years her senior.

Admin - just close this before it goes any further. Troll or not, there is no need for this topic to be discussed any further.

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Im aware. I dont need the lecture. Remember, there are two people in this relationship. Do you think my girlfriend needs counseling too, for serious issues?

This is not a troll, as much as i wish it was not true. It happened, and we are both okay with that.

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There is no "relationship" here other than predator (you) and prey (her). If you aren't trolling, you need to be cooling your heels in a prison cell.

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Admin - just close this before it goes any further. Troll or not, there is no need for this topic to be discussed any further.

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Like button would be pressed if we had one.

Thanks. Despite your best attempts otherwise, you have sufficiently answered my question.

We will keep our past/present a secret. When she reaches the 'proper' age, we will only speak of our 'current' relationship.

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Thanks. Despite your best attempts otherwise, you have sufficiently answered my question.

We will keep our past/present a secret. When she reaches the 'proper' age, we will only speak of our 'current' relationship.

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you likely have the rest of your life to worry about being arrested for your crimes. Many states have removed any statute of limitations for the crimes you are speaking of.

But as with the others i believe you have temporarily come from underneath your bridge.

You are welcome to believe what you want. I dont think this is as uncommon as you think. Perhaps i should have kept it to myself. I am sorry to upset all of you. feel free to delete if you want.

If it possible for someone to take me seriously for just one second: if we speak to a lawyer, is that lawyer obligated to report our past? does this change if i stopped seeing the lawyer as a client?

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If it possible for someone to take me seriously for just one second: if we speak to a lawyer, is that lawyer obligated to report our past? does this change if i stopped seeing the lawyer as a client?

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I'll play for another minute. If you to talk to a lawyer about this, they will be required to report it. Client or not.

is she related to you as well? where did you meet her,, very disturbing,, you don't see anything wrong with what you have done?

Thank you. I will avoid a lawyer then.

She is not related to me!!!! She is the daughter of my 'girlfriends' sister. I have to stay with my 'girlfriend' so that we can stay in contact. Once she gets her own cell phone, email, etc. then this wont be a problem.

Like i said before, i know it is wrong. But its too late to take it back, and we are not going to split up just becuase of what other people think. And now at 13, she doesnt even look like a kid anymore. If that is all i cared about, we wouldnt still be together.

Don't you love the anonymity of the internet? Oh wait... It's super easy to locate the offender remotely nowdays isn't it? So much for keeping things secret. Even trolls get drilled for making up such heinous stories. Good luck with this.

you understand that you are a child predator/molester who prayed on a 6 year old girl, soon as this child tells someone,, and that will happen now that she is 13, you will be going to prison, chances are you will not fair well in there, as even the inmates will attack you for what you have done.

you don't see yourself as a child molester because you are mentally ill, were you also abused as a child?

Aaron!!!!!!!

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you understand that you are a child predator/molester who prayed on a 6 year old girl, soon as this child tells someone,, and that will happen now that she is 13, you will be going to prison, chances are you will not fair well in there, as even the inmates will attack you for what you have done.

you don't see yourself as a child molester because you are mentally ill, were you also abused as a child?

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No.

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No.

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So are you a bit titched in the head or just stupid?

OMG, it's still here. You have already done enough to be investigated for this whether you are telling the truth, or just wanted some attention. This is not the attention that you should seek. This is a public domain and everything is permanent. IP, content f discussion, admission of acts... Do yourself a favor and stop. Pray that when they get ahold of this thread, it'll just be the police and not this kid's parents...

Okay. Thank you.

Like i said, feel free to delete the thread if it is a problem.

Nah, I'd forward this to the authorities in whatever town, Indiana and let them decide on it. Thanks for stopping by.

Do you realize that even if you are trolling the police would still investigate to be sure. If you don't care about police interrogations I guess I won't either.

I really don't think this is a joke, I think he is just looking to the internet for acceptance from anyone, or subconsciously wanting to get caught, these things are sadly not all to rare. the man is clearly in need of help, as he thinks he has been in a "relationship" for a few years now and wanting to further this relationship into the public eye.

I do have one more question, do you have any children? if so what would your reaction be if someone in their 30s had a "relationship" with your small child?

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Like i said, feel free to delete the thread if it is a problem.

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The problem is all yours. NOTHING gets "deleted" from the Internet. ("Deleted" as a computer/technical term doesn't even exist as a concept, but that's not a legal discussion).

Anyway -wow am I surprised logging back in to see that this is still going. OP, if you are trolling (which I actually think is less likely now), you're an idiot and if I were a moderator I'd be turning this all over to local PD so they could investigate your ass. If you are sincere and don't see how you manipulated and took advantage of an innocent child- no one here can help you. You obviously have some serious mental disorders that you need counseling for.

Either way, there is no reason for you to post another single thing about any of your situation on this forum or any other, because 1) like has been pointed out, there is likely no statute of limitations (or it is extremely long) which protects you legally from these acts and 2) everything you post online about yourself or your situation can be used against you in a court of law. So STFU and stop posting online about this.

You have no additional questions. Thanks.

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Thank you. I will avoid a lawyer then.

She is not related to me!!!! She is the daughter of my 'girlfriends' sister. I have to stay with my 'girlfriend' so that we can stay in contact. Once she gets her own cell phone, email, etc. then this wont be a problem.

Like i said before, i know it is wrong. But its too late to take it back, and we are not going to split up just becuase of what other people think. And now at 13, she doesnt even look like a kid anymore. If that is all i cared about, we wouldnt still be together.

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So obviously there are others that are aware of your perversion and illegal behavior. I hope they enjoy prison as well as the conspiracy to commit such heinous acts is worthy of prison time as well.

And of of course the more people that know about your actions, the more likely it wil be reported to the police.

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So obviously there are others that are aware of your perversion and illegal behavior. I hope they enjoy prison as well as the conspiracy to commit such heinous acts is worthy of prison time as well.

And of of course the more people that know about your actions, the more likely it wil be reported to the police.

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You guys keep telling me to stop posting, which i agree, but then you say something like this that i have to respond to. Only 2 people know about this relationship, and its the 2 people in it. There is no conspiracy.

I get it. there is absolutely nothing good about what i am doing. but we both enjoy each other, and we are at the point where leaving her would be worse than staying. i dont want to to do that to her.

I am sorry for even bringing it up and upsetting all of you. I really am.

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You guys keep telling me to stop posting, which i agree, but then you say something like this that i have to respond to. Only 2 people know about this relationship, and its the 2 people in it. There is no conspiracy.

I get it. there is absolutely nothing good about what i am doing. but we both enjoy each other, and we are at the point where leaving her would be worse than staying. i dont want to to do that to her.

I am sorry for even bringing it up and upsetting all of you. I really am.

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you already admitted you stay at this friends house so as to be able to continue your relationship. To suggest that person knows nothing is pretty short sighted.


But hey, if this is real, the more you post, the easier it is to convict you. Nothing like bringing your own noose to your hanging.

if you really care about her,, you should stop all contact with her and your girlfriend, you have influenced that little girl into believing incorrect things, stolen her childhood, many girls who have been abused in this way turn into prostitutes, inflect harm on themselves and even commit suicide, you, yourself are suffering from delusions, you are in need of help. the very first thing you need to do now is break all contact with this child and anyone that knows her like your girlfriend and her sister.

she will never be better off having this type of relationship. this will never get better, she cannot love you, what you have done is a form of brainwashing. you will not see things this way, this is because you suffer from delusions and that is a mental disorder, it can be treated if you seek help

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Only 2 people know about this relationship, and its the 2 people in it.

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A wise guy named Benny Franklin once said the only way 3 people could keep a secret was if 2 of them were dead.