Re: Child Repeatedly Returned to an Unfit Parent
Unfortunately, the only solution is birth control. It then becomes a question of who makes the decision who will not have children. As long as the 1% make money off massive overcrowding and everyone else spends all their money on necessities, they are making money and having a successful future with only an incentive to prevent a system of birth control. On the other side, we have euthanasia where we attempt to force people to live no matter how ill or sick they become, feeding the medical industrial complex.
Re: Child Repeatedly Returned to an Unfit Parent
Thank you for your thoughts and information! It makes my heart break to that there's nothing anyone can really do about it! I know I'll never understand why my mother chose to be the way she was and I'll never know how she could let those things happen but also if it wasn't for her I wouldn't be here! I just wish I knew there was a way to make a difference! I'm sorry for the "quote on quote" "Temper Tantrum" I really thought that maybe if I understood that maybe then I could find a way to help! I Thanks for all the input I'm sorry for the rocky start. I know I'll never completely understand it all but I learned a lot and I have a better understanding now. I really do appreciate the time taken to help me out! THANK YOU!!!
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I Hope everyone has a good night Hold your babies and loved ones tight! Don't ever go a day without telling them you love them. You never know but It could make all the difference!
Re: Child Repeatedly Returned to an Unfit Parent
God be with you honey. May your dreams and ambitions ultimately come true.
Re: Child Repeatedly Returned to an Unfit Parent
As much as I wish I could save the world and make it a better place even I know that's impossible! Lol
But I do just wish there was something I could do to help and make a difference. Even if it's only a small one!
but anyways I TRULY DO THANK YOU!!! :)
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I have a journal that Im suppose to record how I feel in it! The First Feeling I have recorded is CONFUSION! And the question written under it was what I asked last night! I asked because I thought if I knew the answer then maybe i could do something to help kids that are in similar situations now!
Im horrible with communicating! It always comes out how I don't want it to. "In my mind It's seems one way but it always comes out the wrong way! I'm sorry I didn't know how to ask without explaining some of the things that happened! I didn't say those things because I was throwing a tantrum! I'm not an angry or miserable person at all! I just really really wanted so badly to understand and I thought that by understanding then maybe I could do something about it. I really wasn't trying to come across like I did! I felt kind of offended by some of the comments and I lashed out when I shouldn't have! I really am sorry!
Re: Child Repeatedly Returned to an Unfit Parent
But hon, we weren't there. We didn't do the investigations. We don't have access to the records, or the statements, or the recommendations that were made. There's no way for us to know. We can't even begin to guess without that information. Of course you want to know why but a message forum can't give you that answer.
I wasn't being heartless when I told you not to live in the past. You've gotten out. You're not in the situation any more. Of course it's marked you and of course you're still dealing with the consequences - that's because you're human. But you have the means and the determination and the independence to move forward. Looking back won't give you answers. Looking forward is so much more healthy. Right?