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  • 10-12-2014, 04:43 PM
    kaitlinr_becca96
    Can an Adult Legally Date a Child if the Parents Consent
    My question relates to dating minors: I could not find any thing on this topic, so I had choose one that was close enough. Is it legal for me to date a fourteen year old? I am a girl that just turned eighteen. This boy and I really like each other and we want to date, but I'm not sure if it is legal for us to date in the state of Alabama. What if his parents agree for us to date? I know that you're not allowed to have sex with a minor. I don't plan on having sex with him at all. He wants to ask me to be his girlfriend, but I told him he should discuss this with his parents first. Am I doing the right thing?
  • 10-12-2014, 04:46 PM
    Disagreeable
    Re: Is It Legal to Date a Fourteen Year Old if I Am Eighteen and His Parents Agree
    It is the policy of this Forum not to enable adults to take advantage of minors in a sexual manner or other.
  • 10-12-2014, 04:50 PM
    cbg
    Re: Is It Legal to Date a Fourteen Year Old if I Am Eighteen and His Parents Agree
    That depends on your definition of "date". The law does not give one hoot who he hangs out with in the mall, or takes to school events, or goes to the movies with. But the minute you do anything with a fourteen year old that you wouldn't do with your grandfather, I can see problems ahead.

    And given that girls generally mature faster than boys, the fact that you, at eighteen, are finding intellectual and emotional companionship with a boy four years younger says something about you and what it says is not complimentary.
  • 10-12-2014, 05:05 PM
    free9man
    Re: Is It Legal to Date a Fourteen Year Old if I Am Eighteen and His Parents Agree
    What on earth does this have to do with legal fees?
  • 10-12-2014, 05:52 PM
    adjusterjack
    Re: Is It Legal to Date a Fourteen Year Old if I Am Eighteen and His Parents Agree
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    What on earth does this have to do with legal fees?

    Who said anything about legal fees?
  • 10-12-2014, 06:18 PM
    Mr. Knowitall
    Re: Is It Legal to Date a Fourteen Year Old if I Am Eighteen and His Parents Agree
    The OP posted this thread in the legal practice forum, tagged "legal fees".
  • 10-12-2014, 06:58 PM
    BooRennie
    Re: Is It Legal to Date a Fourteen Year Old if I Am Eighteen and His Parents Agree
    Age of majority in Alabama is 19, not 18.
  • 10-12-2014, 07:00 PM
    cbg
    Re: Is It Legal to Date a Fourteen Year Old if I Am Eighteen and His Parents Agree
    True, but in this case it's an 18 year old girl looking to date a 14 year old boy. She's not at the age of majority, true, but that doesn't change the answers.
  • 10-12-2014, 07:46 PM
    BooRennie
    Re: Is It Legal to Date a Fourteen Year Old if I Am Eighteen and His Parents Agree
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    True, but in this case it's an 18 year old girl looking to date a 14 year old boy. She's not at the age of majority, true, but that doesn't change the answers.

    I understand that, but according to the state, she is still a minor.
  • 10-12-2014, 07:56 PM
    cbg
    Re: Is It Legal to Date a Fourteen Year Old if I Am Eighteen and His Parents Agree
    Oh, I see, you're talking to Dis. Got it.
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