Re: How to Prove to the Court That Mother is Not Capable or Not a Good Parent
There have been several well fair checks due to the fact that her new husband and 2 buddies were playing with a loaded gun in the house and it went off and one of the guys were shot in the leg. After finding this out we had several well fair checks done to ensure that the guns were locked up and unloaded. DHS was called in and they also did a well fair check, however they did not see that it was abuse more like incompetent parenting when taking an SOS pad to your childs are to get a fake tatoo off so nothing was done except for DHS now has a file for her.
Like I said we have so much documented that I could go on and on and on but you would be reading for days. Like I also said you don't know the whole situation so I can see why what was said. I only reached out on here to see what type of responses and advice and see if anyone is going through the same type of situation. But to just reach out and say we haven't done anything is not the case we have had an attorney advice through the whole thing. Just like last month we found out the 2 oldest 10 and 11 year olds were staying at their grandparents house without any adult over night dog sitting while they were out of town. When we found out this we contacted the attorney to find out our options.
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There have been several well fair checks due to the fact that her new husband and 2 buddies were playing with a loaded gun in the house and it went off and one of the guys were shot in the leg. After finding this out we had several well fair checks done to ensure that the guns were locked up and unloaded. DHS was called in and they also did a well fair check, however they did not see that it was abuse more like incompetent parenting when taking an SOS pad to your childs are to get a fake tatoo off so nothing was done except for DHS now has a file for her.
Like I said we have so much documented that I could go on and on and on but you would be reading for days. Like I also said you don't know the whole situation so I can see why what was said. I only reached out on here to see what type of responses and advice and see if anyone is going through the same type of situation. But to just reach out and say we haven't done anything is not the case we have had an attorney advice through the whole thing. Just like last month we found out the 2 oldest 10 and 11 year olds were staying at their grandparents house without any adult over night dog sitting while they were out of town. When we found out this we contacted the attorney to find out our options.
Welfare checks are not the same thing as finding that the children are neglected or abused. However, your husband does have an attorney and that is where his questions should be directed.
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Shame on me for reaching out on this forum... I feel like I have been raked over the coals. Obviously you all know everything about everything on here and it is my fault that I even mentioned this on here. No you don't know the whole situation, could I post everything for you I certainly could. Yes he has an attorney but there are so many situations and scenarios out there. After reading some of the posts on here and reading some of the answers I should have known better.
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Trust me I know that welfare checks are not the same. You guys act like this is my first rodeo we have been going through this for 3 years and he has been going through this for longer before I came along. And those questions have all been directed to our attorney...
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You've completely ignored what you've been told. How did you manage that?! I'll throw you a bone though. Ask the attorney exactly how those all-important 3 binders are going to be accepted as gospel, but Mom's binders will not. Can you at least try to understand that point?
Wish Dad good luck for me, please. Because if you keep going with your vendetta, he can be penalized and penalized heavily. And if given a choice between you and his children, guess who he's going to choose?
Say hi to your imaginary attorney, too.
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I only reached out on here to see what type of responses and advice and see if anyone is going through the same type of situation.
Honestly, this isn't the proper forum for what you're seeking which seems to be others with whom to commiserate.
From a legal POV - to successfully obtain a modification of custody the moving party must demonstrate a change in circumstances as they pertain to the children and that can be a very difficult standard to meet. If dad has three years of documentation the court *will* want to know why dad didn't file at least two years ago if he truly believed his children were in danger.
Dad needs to speak to a few attorneys (many family law lawyers provide a free initial consultation) before he decides to spend a ton of money in a custody battle.
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unless you forgot to mention the DUI with the kids in the car, the passing out on the couch high on heroin, or getting arrested having the kids help her shoplift, nothing you described is even close to being unfit. being bad at keeping a job does not make someone unfit, being bad with money and not being able to afford fun activities for the children does not make someone unfit.
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Invisible Attorney? Her name is Jessica Wiebrand she is not invisible nor imaginary. I don't have an vendetta and I would never ask him to chose me or his kids ever! How dare you! I love those kids as my own! He asked me to reach out to this forum so I did so sorry that I even asked some simple questions. Good luck to all of you!
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I suggest you read the thread again.
And honey, you're not the only step-whatever on these boards. The difference is, we've learned our lesson and our place.
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Yeowch! I'm sure Ms. Wiebrand will be absolutely THRILLED to discover that Aaron's girlfriend has not only revealed details of a case online using what appears to be a real name, but has also been named as the attorney of record on a public forum.
Good one.
Well, that took all of 30 seconds to find your FB page, your wedding registration and your fiance Aaron's FULL name.
Lesson: Don't be dumb online. If I could find this crap in under a minute how long do you think it will take mom to find this thread if she gets curious? Hmmm?
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Yeowch! I'm sure Ms. Wiebrand will be absolutely THRILLED to discover that Aaron's girlfriend has not only revealed details of a case online using what appears to be a real name, but has also been named as the attorney of record on a public forum.
Good one.
Well, that took all of 30 seconds to find your FB page, your wedding registration and your fiance Aaron's FULL name.
Lesson: Don't be dumb online. If I could find this crap in under a minute how long do you think it will take mom to find this thread if she gets curious? Hmmm?
You. Are. SO. Awesome.
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