I Want to Live with My 16 Year Old Girlfriend

I concur, it was a hypothesis guessing OP's desire to live with a friend but not another relative despite their claim of dangerous circumstances. One tends to regard the safety of a female teen being more of a concern than that of a male teen and their reactions different for physical and emotional reasons.

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Quoting cbg

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Could be, but irrelevant to the legal answer to the question.

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Alrighty, thanks guys. And i don't think some of you quite understand, i don't get payed for babysitting. She wakes me up everyday early to babysit ALL day. My father gets a social security check, i get 400$ from it, she gets it all and spends it. I don't get anything. Doesn't buy food with it, or anything. And for whoever said something about no food i like? would you like me to take a picture of my empty cabinets? My empty fridge with jugs of Fosset water? I'm not some immature 16 year old that's spoiled and gets pissed when he doesn't get what he wants. The question was can her father get custody of me, i want a normal life i'm tired of living like a built in maid. The answer is No, so i'll put up with it. Thank you for all of your answers.

Get a job. Buy your own food.

How can one get a job when i'm always babysitting?

What makes you think you're entitled to any of your father's social security check?

My father gets one, and i get one. He gets 1100 and i get 400. He has cancer so i'm pretty sure it's for that, i'm not sure. Sorry for the inconvenience.

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My social security check is supposed to be used to buy me clothes, food, and help with the bills. She uses 200$ to help with some bills, then uses the rest for her own personal use. This last month she used most of it for a tattoo.

Did you have shelter, running water, and minimal food last month? Then as far as the law is concerned, THAT's where it went. Who is paying for the internet service you're using to make these posts? Whose desk are you sitting at? Whose chair are you sitting IN? See where that's headed?

I'm using my hotspot off my phone for internet, which my grandmother pays for. Yes, we have water. But i'm tired of drinking nothing but fosset water. And the only food i get is the change i scavenge up to buy packs of ramon noodles from the store down the block. And i'm not sitting in a chair, i'm actually on a baby mattress that's on the floor that i use for a bed. I don't understand why this is escalating to something other than the main question i've asked. Quit trying to make it look like i have it good when in all reality i don't, i'm constantly angry, sad, and i feel abandoned. The last time i told my sister no to babysitting my nephew so she could go play "pool with her friends for a couple hours" it turned into a massive argument which she threatened to get me for unruly. You guys have answered my question, that's that. Thank you once again for your answers. That's all i wanted.

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Quoting MedicatedBambi

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I'm using my hotspot off my phone for internet, which my grandmother pays for. Yes, we have water. But i'm tired of drinking nothing but fosset water. And the only food i get is the change i scavenge up to buy packs of ramon noodles from the store down the block. And i'm not sitting in a chair, i'm actually on a baby mattress that's on the floor that i use for a bed. I don't understand why this is escalating to something other than the main question i've asked. Quit trying to make it look like i have it good when in all reality i don't, i'm constantly angry, sad, and i feel abandoned. The last time i told my sister no to babysitting my nephew so she could go play "pool with her friends for a couple hours" it turned into a massive argument which she threatened to get me for unruly. You guys have answered my question, that's that. Thank you once again for your answers. That's all i wanted.

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I'm not sure if "fosset" is a brand of water or are you saying that the only water you have to drink comes from the faucet? If the latter, that's fine. There are tons of people in this world who only drink water from the faucet. I'm not a fan of it, but my husband thinks it's great.

Otherwise, if the conditions are truly as bad as you have indicated, look for the number of the local Department of Children's Services. Tell them you're being neglected. If they come to the house and see what you're describing, then they will put you in foster care where they will hopefully have food (but I can't guarantee anything other than faucet water because there is no law anywhere that says they have to provide you with bottled water).

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CourtClerk;810754]I'm not sure if "fosset" is a brand of water or are you saying that the only water you have to drink comes from the faucet? If the latter, that's fine. There are tons of people in this world who only drink water from the faucet. I'm not a fan of it, but my husband thinks it's great.

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sorry but I loves my fosset water.


and if you want to hear some things that would make you question ever drinking water from a municipality again, just let me know.




the fact sister wakes up OP every morning and OP babysits all day tells me OP is doing absolutely nothing else with their life. Obviously sister got along without OP before so I presume she can again if needed. It's likely OP was simply sitting around the house eating everything (and then complaining there was no food (left)) so sis said; if you are going to be here, you are not going to just sit around the house all day and eat everything. At 16 you are going to earn your keep.

but hey, it's not like I've never been 16 or had any 16 year old kids so I probably have no idea what I am talking about.