Can I Get a Different Judge if I Don't Think the Court's Decision Was Fair

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Quoting SuperPop

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Do you believe that a judge will give you possession of a home you don't live in? Take possession away from your STBX who has no apartment, but give it to you, who does have another place to stay already setup and available? Making her homeless, but giving you two living arrangements?

What about the children? Where are you moving to? Are you going to be able to find a place in the same town, county, school district? Why should they move out of their home(that he will be giving to your stbx if you move out)?

I'm sorry i'm being harsh George, honestly, i'm scared for you. I don't want you to make a big mistake!

You WILL get another chance to file a DV charge against your STBX, just wait it out, don't move out.

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I think that it would greatly hinder my chances of exclusive use if I move out (with the kids). But then it might also depend on the circumstances of the moving out.

The place in mind is still close enough for school.

But the above is only in a case where I have no other choice.

It's not my intention to move out.

And I think you're right. I'll get another shot at it. :)

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Quoting Dogmatique

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Yet there are CPs who are male. Check "down the street" if you already haven't, using that moniker.

OP also has a HUGE plus on his side - the deed is in his name only.

Bye bye Mom!

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(In other words, the kids aren't moving anyway. Mom is moving out though...)

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I don't know about mom moving out, but when property division happens the deed in his name will be a plus. He may not lose the whole house, she just may have to 'buy out' his half while he lives in a garage/studio apartment so he can afford the 29%, before taxes(after FICA), child support.

I do know some custodial dad's in staten island. Great guys, strange, covered in tattoos and....from staten island...But they are amazing dad's

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Quoting Dogmatique

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Yet there are CPs who are male. Check "down the street" if you already haven't, using that moniker.

OP also has a HUGE plus on his side - the deed is in his name only.

Bye bye Mom!

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(In other words, the kids aren't moving anyway. Mom is moving out though...)

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Oooohhhh

Tell me more.

The house was purchased during the marriage.

But her credit was (is) lousy. I would have been paying at LEAST another 2% in interest, if not 3%.

You need to file and request exclusive use of the marital home based upon you being the primary caregiver. Submit a parenting plan and request child support from Mom at the same time.

Now, in terms of finances, Mom is entitled to half of the equity accrued during the marriage.

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Quoting SuperPop

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... DON'T MOVE OUT and i hope you are carrying your tape recorder around with you!

This women is dangerous, she WILL attack you again, put the police on speed dial! When she does, press charges and file again.

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No, I won't be moving out.

Yes, I carry my tape recorder everywhere now.

As far as attacking, I just need to be ready for it.

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Quoting SuperPop

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I do know some custodial dad's in staten island. Great guys, strange, covered in tattoos and....from staten island...But they are amazing dad's

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Thankfully, the times during which the Mothers always got custody are almost over. Having a uterus is no longer a guarantee - and to quote dear Martha "That's a good thing".

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Quoting Dogmatique

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Thankfully, the times during which the Mothers always got custody are almost over. Having a uterus is no longer a guarantee - and to quote dear Martha "That's a good thing".

:D

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It's not a given anymore, but the recent stats i've read say 85% mothers get custody...I'm still bias on this subject and maybe a little bitter still, it's best for me to make no comment at all....Is it fair if i just say QUOTED FOR TRUTH!

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You know i have a friend who's just starting this process right now. No paper work was filed last time i talked to him, but he's also a stay at home dad with a 10yr old an 7yr old and (i think) a 3yr old, living in NY. He filed with the police a month or so back because his wife attacked him. This just clicked for me. The only difference is, he's NOT 6'4 250lbs, he's maybe 5'9 185lbs, but his wife is MUCH smaller then him, she's tiny 5' 105lbs, maybe.

I've known him since elementary school, so i'm pretty sure he wouldn't use the name George Roy, BUT my PM's are turned on here, if you are him, send me a PM.

(You might want to find a study which considers the times a father actually files... ;) )

I'm just wondering.

Can I go down to the court and reapply for an RO ? And hope to get another judge ?

No.