Re: Seeking Custody of an Unborn Child, Mother is Incarcerated
Sorry for the delay on response been alittle hectic around here. To answer that marriage question no that will never happen I can never forgive her for jeopardizing our sons health. I called a lawyer an they said what you said ^ . Sent out paternity papers today. How does one get approved for allowing the baby to stay there? She already has had multiple cases of CPs reports against her. Should I call them to see if they could help me out? Lawyer said I have a chance ultimately it's up to the judge an what he think would be best for that baby.
Re: Seeking Custody of an Unborn Child, Mother is Incarcerated
CPS has been on her backside and you still thought she was good "Mom" material?!
Oy vey.
That aside, Mom should know whether or not it's possible to keep the child there. Bedford Hills has (I believe) the oldest prison nursery/parenting programs in the country. The length of Mom's sentence IS a factor here.
Re: Seeking Custody of an Unborn Child, Mother is Incarcerated
OP, my suggestion of marriage was never about the two of you reconciling. It was about getting rights to your baby as soon as it is born, without having to jump through the many legal hoops you will have to without the benefit of marriage.
Re: Seeking Custody of an Unborn Child, Mother is Incarcerated
Accidents happen an I don't know I'm not the type to go through a marriage in a vindictive way just to get rights. I've spoken to a lawyer an she said if the judge thinks that's a more appropriate home for the baby which it's not an when it comes down to it it will be the judges decision. That's even if she gets approved in the first place to have the baby stay there. Which I'm unsure how it works. But regardless I sent in my paternity papers an I will proceed the route they specified for me hopefully it all works out. I plan on calling Bedford hills an CPS to get some more information as well on the manner
Re: Seeking Custody of an Unborn Child, Mother is Incarcerated
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Re: Seeking Custody of an Unborn Child, Mother is Incarcerated
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Mary AND I are going to the store.
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Mary bought me an apple while we were at the store.
OMG! Thank you!
Re: Seeking Custody of an Unborn Child, Mother is Incarcerated
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Accidents happen an I don't know I'm not the type to go through a marriage in a vindictive way just to get rights. I've spoken to a lawyer an she said if the judge thinks that's a more appropriate home for the baby which it's not an when it comes down to it it will be the judges decision. That's even if she gets approved in the first place to have the baby stay there. Which I'm unsure how it works. But regardless I sent in my paternity papers an I will proceed the route they specified for me hopefully it all works out. I plan on calling Bedford hills an CPS to get some more information as well on the manner
You do understand that Bedford Hills likely won't give you any information AT ALL about a "guest" there to whom you have absolutely no legal ties, right? As far as they're concerned, you're just "some guy" claiming to be the father of an unborn baby. Their concern is not about you. At all.
And that CPS can't predict what Bedford Hills is likely to do?
I think you're going into this with blinders on.
Why are you ignoring the question of "How long", by the way?