Can You Stop a Vacation by the Other Custodian That You Think Will Be Unsafe

But it's not interfering with your parental relationship. Not in the legal sense.

I don't know what else to tell you. You can try to take it back to court - but honestly, I don't see you succeeding.

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And see it from the other side. She has visitation - meaning you and the court agree that SHE is fit to take care of the children during her visitation time.

See where I'm coming from?

I do - except that I said I was ok with general visitation. Not super long road trips with my young boys. I should not have had to lay out every situation in our agreement. Minnesota law refers to fit parents having control....and 2 other things over thier kids' lives. (Too tired to look it up.) Isn't the the parental relationship? If not, what is it?

She can take me to court and they can decide. Family court is a horrible, horrible thing, especially when no one wants to actually do their job and interpret the law.

The only thing I can recommend right now is that you talk to an attorney.

Oh, I have and no one knows what to do with this case. It sucks that we pulled a lazy judge who has no desire whatsoever to actually dive into this law. He has given me a special hatred for the judiciary. I wish I could totally not do my job and still demand respect.

For now I'll just keep doing what's best for my kids, documenting everything, and hoping my ex is just blowing smoke.

Thanks :)