Restraining Order and Child Visitation

Food stamps won't need to be repaid. If she got TANF though (and maybe a couple of other things) you may end up being responsible for repayment.

I still get the feeling that you're going to do the right thing for your child. I think you know deep down that getting Mom into trouble isn't going to benefit your little girl. And I understand your feelings - I really do.

You have receipts/bank records for the deposit, yes? Request that everything you've paid is credited to anything they say you owe.

Yes I have saved the receipts and such. And of course I don't want for her to get in trouble, since it will really benefit no one, and that's kinda my basis for asking. To give her a heads up. Though at times I wish I didn't have a conscience. If I were to also get a notarized paper, with both my signature and hers, saying that from the day my child was born up until now I have supported her, would that also be helpful?