Personal Child Support Agreement

My question involves child support in the country of Canada:

I live in Canada my babies daddy there twins, lives in N.C.

I don't not want to go court or force him to pay support. But if I don't get support they will force him. Can we make out our own child support agreement and it will it be binding. And can we also have him sign rights away the same way?

Maybe I should state that I am dual I live both in Canada and the States fifty fifty, So Does that make things any better for me?

No, no, and no.

So I have to take him to court?

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Quoting Marya Yankopulos

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So I have to take him to court?

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Okay, which is it? You're either in Canada, or Florida. Can't be Shroedinger's Poster :)

A child support agreement is not binding unless it is issued by either the court, or child support agency.

And seriously - with regards to "signing off rights", that is NOT going to happen in the US under these circumstances.

I live half the yr in usa and half in canada..

And are you married with a husband willing to adopt the children?

No I am a single mother. But I can prove he's a dead beat dad to other children he has.

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No I am a single mother. But I can prove he's a dead beat dad to other children he has.

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That has absolutely nothing to do with your situation. At. All.

The court wants TWO parents to be responsible for a child whenever possible. Now, you initially stated that "they" would force him to pay - who is "they"?

If I go on assistance they can go after him for support right I was told. I am a non working mother. And when I take him to court to get his right taken away the judge can make him pay??

The court is NOT going to "take away his rights". Forget that.

File for child support already - pretty sure the taxpayers don't want to support your children!