I'm seeking advice for state of Virginia. My husband and I were together for five years. Our daughter was born September of 2011, we married two months later in November 2011. July 2012, I found out he had slep with six other women during our marriage. I left and took only what I wanted, our daughter. I have full sole legal custody, which he gladly gave me with no fight. He has visitation three days a week supervised by me. It is supervised because I do not trust him to watch her as he should, and my daughter has never been alone with him (even when marriage was peachy keen). I have told him several times, I never limit him to only three days per week. If he wants to see her everyday that is fine with me. I grew up in a broken home with a dad who was there only when it was good for him and it did damage to me. My daughter is 16 months old, an I fear for her going through this. He visit her only two or three times a month, for an hour each visit. He chooses to walk around the mall with her. I suggested a very nice indoor playground that he could actually bond physically with her and play wih her. He still prefers the mall. Before I ask my question, please understand that if her dad was a good dad that wanted to be in we life, I wouldn't be asking. It would bring m me great joy for her to have a father "all in". Because he only sees her when he feels like it, 2/3 hours a month, I fear it will mess her up emotionally, and I'd prefer him be active and all in or not in at all. What can I do about this? (He has two kids 10, 8 from a previous marriage that I watched him do this to, and they have suffered greatly: eating disorders, failing classes, anxiety issues) pleasebelo