Quote:
Quoting poohbrit88
In other words, is says absolutely nothing about Dad being allowed to refuse visitation? Or Mom's husband being restricted?
Please - don't make us pull teeth. We sure as heck ain't dentists here :)
Printable View
Quote:
Quoting poohbrit88
In other words, is says absolutely nothing about Dad being allowed to refuse visitation? Or Mom's husband being restricted?
Please - don't make us pull teeth. We sure as heck ain't dentists here :)
no dad is not resticting visitation from mom at all. She has not tried to make visitation even when we offer it. dcf and cpi told us this is not about her husband or her family and we are not in anyway shape or form obligated to cooperate with them but we have to cooperate with mom.
also in our court summons for the next dependancy hearing it descibes how both mom and step dad abused and neglected children by abusing drugs while kids in their care and that both have a history of substance abuse (and she admitted to it as well to the investigators) it also states how their is not stable house for the kids to live in with mom or stable income to provide for them.
Yes he is. He's refusing to have her husband accompany her - and there is NOTHING in the court order restraining or restricting her husband from visitation.
This is NOT about Dad's choice (and honestly? it's even less about yours - you're a legal stranger just the same as Mom's husband). This is about him following a court order.
Honestly, while I realize that Dad has concerns and that Mom has issues herself, Dad needs to NOT mess up here. Because I can see Mom rushing right back into court and succeeding in getting the whole order modified.
- - - Updated - - -
Oh, nice edit.
Get your husband to speak with a local attorney. You don't have all the facts, we certainly don't have all the facts, and he's in danger of losing the great advantage he has.
If that happens? You can kiss any chance of adopting those kids good-bye.
but there is also nothing saying we have to let him either.
- - - Updated - - -
we have and our attorney agreed with dcf anf cpi.. this is not what my question was about what i really wanted to know was how long do we have to put up with her disappearing act before its considered abandonment.
Ask Dad's attorney.
You're welcome :)