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You do know that even *if* you do "sign your rights away", you will still be liable for the same financial obligations that you are now?

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Quoting passiondad

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Ok maybe i will email GAL to find out.

startin to lean towards signing away rights tho. I mean mom aint never gonna work with me..... Christ havent even got a f-ing picture in over a year, because i smoked some pot,,,,,,,,

What a tragedy in the making! :(

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A tragedy of your own doing.

Haven't you been attending the supervised visits?

If not, why not?

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Quoting Dogmatique

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A tragedy of your own doing.

Haven't you been attending the supervised visits?

If not, why not?

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Because this hasn't been about the child in a very, very long time....if it ever was.

If you're going to lie on your MMPI, what do you expect to happen?

Best case scenario for the child is the receipt of your support money, without contact, at all, at this point. As much as you want to complain about the situation, you've made incredibly bad decision after incredibly bad decision, even after being warned that doing so could have many of the consequences you're now encountering. You went from a winning position to a loosing one because you're just determined to do things your own way, rather than the ways that might have actually gotten you what you were originally seeking. Being right and being happy aren't the same thing, but your stubbornness is going to result in you being neither.

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Because this hasn't been about the child in a very, very long time....if it ever was.

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Here endeth the lesson.

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You do know that even *if* you do "sign your rights away", you will still be liable for the same financial obligations that you are now?

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havent seen you around these parts much m and m ahhhhhh yeah financial responsiblitie will be gone when new husband adopts like I hear he wants to!!!! besides of course arrears.......

Im still jus waiting to see if Mom comes around at all, she knows the truth, She screwed me, took advantage of my kindness and trust. She knows she left because all I was doing for a living was sign spinning and she wants pretty jewelry and stuff like that. she wants to be taken out to dinner 5 times a week, she left because i didnt make enough money for her, not that i couldnt support the fam but she didnt want to move from a 3/1 to a 2/1.........

Jus playin a waiting a game, I need to get over the anger, it comes and go's, but still rather a lil serious because i get some nasty thoughts sometimes, i dont know that ill ever get over it........ Or that ill never want the revenge............. so yeah best interest right now is to calm down yet it is what it is

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If you're going to lie on your MMPI, what do you expect to happen?

Best case scenario for the child is the receipt of your support money, without contact, at all, at this point. As much as you want to complain about the situation, you've made incredibly bad decision after incredibly bad decision, even after being warned that doing so could have many of the consequences you're now encountering. You went from a winning position to a loosing one because you're just determined to do things your own way, rather than the ways that might have actually gotten you what you were originally seeking. Being right and being happy aren't the same thing, but your stubbornness is going to result in you being neither.



Here endeth the lesson.

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some people jus dont care, im on the fence, thinking about jus tellin support people to file the charges so I can go to jail, and ill happily stay in jaqil for up to 10 years maybe longer. I am actually giving things alot of thought........ stressful......

alot of people pissed me off, i can turn my back on them, throw the hands up and walk away, or I can hang onto the anger and let it play out, jus dunno yet...

Id like to hang on for another 20 months till i can file again, and rebutt the Drs 80% recidisvism (sp) prison rate for me

id like to hang on for 20 months till mom gets a DUI

In my heart of hearts I know Im an awesome parent, and the kiddo needs both.

with that said i bend to the will of No man or women.......... Im a throw back not an important one not a superior one, jus a run of the mill throwback Johnny Coelacanth

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Finally I must admit i was dishonest on my MMPI test, would it benefit me to take another one?

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If you're going to lie on your MMPI, what do you expect to happen?

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I missed that one. We don't have context here, but I suspect the problem is that the court ordered a psychological assessment, the person doing the assessment administered the MMPI, and the result shows a problem on a validity scale. In order to have a valid test result the MMPI can only be administered 'every so often' - it may be too soon to have it readministered. It may be possible to do a more specific test, such as a parenting stress inventory, to get an adequate result but that's something to discuss with the person trying to make the assessment.

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Jus playin a waiting a game, I need to get over the anger, it comes and go's, but still rather a lil serious because i get some nasty thoughts sometimes, i dont know that ill ever get over it........ Or that ill never want the revenge............. so yeah best interest right now is to calm down yet it is what it is

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Are you stupid? You've already learned your postings can be used against you in court and you continue to post ammo for mom. Get anger management counseling...you obviously need it

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I am actually giving things alot of thought........ stressful......

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Counseling will teach you to deal with the stress properly.

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alot of people pissed me off, i can turn my back on them, throw the hands up and walk away, or I can hang onto the anger and let it play out, jus dunno yet...

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The anger will get you no where. Trust me.

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id like to hang on for 20 months till mom gets a DUI

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And then what? She's still not likely to lose custody.

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In my heart of hearts I know Im an awesome parent, and the kiddo needs both.

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No, you aren't. Why you can't see that, we don't know. Your drive for revenge on mom, inability to handle your anger or do what's best for the child are proof of that.

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with that said i bend to the will of No man or women.......... Im a throw back not an important one not a superior one, jus a run of the mill throwback Johnny Coelacanth

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Yeah right.

So THAT'S who has the crystal ball, and knows that exactly 20 months from now Mom is going to get a DUI?

Your time is up, Johnny - time to give it back.

ahhhh yeah mom can have ammo cause as long as she lookin Im STILL winning........you should see her paintings, they are not self portraits of her laughing, she knows she messed up.
she didnt wanna be white trash and she went and did a white trash thing, she is living with that daily....


But more ammo sure, whatev, she 2 years from gettin divorced, she gonna get fat get single and realize she need a daddy around to help....

I know when she takes her new beau for everything i got my in as he will be a perfect stranger as he is allready with no rights, only rights given to him by ex as she agrees, you think she will let ex see kiddo, no way jose, there are so many possibilities im jus waiting,

things have a way of working themselves out like a sliver

There may be many possibilities - but you ending up with custody isn't one of them, at this point.