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  • 10-29-2012, 04:27 PM
    jenc0913
    Untrue Accussations of Sexual Abuse Regarding My Four Year Old Child
    My question involves child abuse or neglect in the State of: Pennsylvania

    This all started when my Fiancee(child's father) had passed 7months ago. Myself, and my Fiancee had been good friends with a man for years. He would come over with his child every once in a while. Well my daughter had started potty training 1 year ago,and would want to wipe herself. Well she was somewhat red down there for a while because she would not let anyone help her. My mother was very aware of this for a very long time. Since my Fiancee had passed, I stayed good friends with this man we always hung out with. My mother even admitted she did not like him since he was 14 years older than me.(Fiancee was 8yrs older and I am 26yrs old.) She had even came storming into his house when our children were playing in eyes view and started screaming. She had stated, I don't like you to my friend, and she is only using you as a crutch. May I add she threatened him with an attorney for no reason and stated she knows a lot of people in law enforcement to get him in trouble. (For no reason)
    Also my daughter had NEVER complained to me about her private areas during a bath time, only when my mother did. Now that my Fiancee had passed she had shut the bathroom door and asked leading questions and asked if my friend touched her and spoke to her privately,and took her out of daycare without her knowledge the next day. She had taken her to Children Youth Services stating she was sexual molested. While I know this is not true,she had NEVER been alone with him. She had also kicked me out after filing emergency custody, so she can prove I was an unfit mother and take my daughter away from me. We went to court and I was not found unfit, and as long as I kept her away from the accused person that I would keep custody. Also the investigation that was filed, the police officer watched the video and said that this was an unfounded accusation, and he will not press charges. He took my statement, which basically said this was untrue, and also the accused statement and sent it to the DA's office. NO charges were filed and CYS is now closing the case. What this is coming down to, so I can have a happy family again with my daughter, does the paperwork filed at family court still stand even though no charges were filed(DA's office) and CYS is closing it?
  • 10-29-2012, 10:49 PM
    Mr. Knowitall
    Re: Untrue Accussations of Sexual Abuse Regarding My Four Year Old Child
    You appear to be stating that following a CPS investigation and court action, you were left with custody of your child. You appear to be stating that as long as you keep the person at issue away from the child, the court and CPS are not concerned about your parenting of your child. So I'm not sure what is keeping you from having "a happy family again with [your] daughter".
  • 10-30-2012, 07:05 AM
    shortie
    Re: Untrue Accussations of Sexual Abuse Regarding My Four Year Old Child
    I think she is asking if she still has to keep him away even though the case is closed.
  • 10-30-2012, 07:22 AM
    Disagreeable
    Re: Untrue Accussations of Sexual Abuse Regarding My Four Year Old Child
    Quote:

    Quoting shortie
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    I think she is asking if she still has to keep him away even though the case is closed.

    She is. We have no way of answering that. We are not the court who ordered her. Her contention is that it interferes with her and her childs relationship, which, Mr.K. pointed out it does not.
  • 10-30-2012, 10:04 AM
    jenc0913
    Re: Untrue Accussations of Sexual Abuse Regarding My Four Year Old Child
    shortie-yes, exactly my question. Thank you. I was told I had to petition the courts from one lawyer and another one said no.
  • 10-30-2012, 10:59 AM
    Mr. Knowitall
    Re: Untrue Accussations of Sexual Abuse Regarding My Four Year Old Child
    It depends on what the court has ordered. We're in no position to tell you if CPS and the courts view you as innocent (hence the end of protective proceedings) but view him as a potential or actual danger. Talk to your lawyer or, albeit very carefully if she might interpret it as your being so eager to reconcile with your 'friend' that you'll put the child in danger, the case worker.
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