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Re: Meddling Grandmother
lol........messed up. I "CC" ex in on email to GAL and one to her Lawyer, I wrote one to her, and then fowarded her one from supervision place that i only wrote "read this", and she called the police and said
"the frequency bothers me" at which point the Police came over. so The DA is offering a 50 dollar fine to settle that. i am not settling, and will let them know tomorrow,
whats the standard websters Definition of "CC" when you do it in an email, because the two "CC" emails were as i see it technically not in violation not contacting her or trying to communicate with her. Ill only take their deal if they make it a civil forfeiture, besides i dont believe the TRO strictly said no CC-ing.
I think she came clean to her lawyer on who's baby it is anyways. :( before DNA comes back
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A CC of an email is still contact. When the court says No Contact, it really does mean no contact AT ALL.
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I'm trying so hard not to roll my eyes here. You're the child's LEGAL father. We KNOW this. Are you expecting paternity to be disestablished?
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Paternity:
not to be argumentative but i dont believe they swabbed my mouth, kiddos mouth, and moms mouth last week for Sh#ts and giggles. If DNA testing comes back that chances are i am not the father, sure i imagine at that point my paternity of this child is disestablished, coupled with the fact that mom has written an email to me that new husband wants to adopt, I do believe the court would allow the dis-establishment of paternity.
with that said I have turned in my paperwork to the supervised place assuming she is mine.
Now as far as the violation of the DV order i am allowed to send two emails a week, I fixed that when i went to intial appearance and requested the bail state no contact at all. No more ammo for her.
In reading another post on here about dating before divorce is final, Ive come to the conclusion ill mention she got married within 14 months of snagging the child, but will not dwell on it. leave it up to the judge on how he wants to take that, when early motions an affidavits from me stated she left cause i wouldnt tie the knot.
BTW she pregnant again..... lol I was stoopid....... Doing better now though, reading my books and not allowing feelings to eat me from the inside out. looking towards the future of parenting the kiddo, I realize im half to blame.
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I'm just shaking my head here, Johnny.
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in a restraining order situation say aggressor calls victim or leaves a message victim has to hear it, say aggressor calls friends to deliver messages victim has to hear it.
but when you have two emails cc-ed in your inbox lol delete them........
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verified temporary injunction to prevent removal of minor child has been filed, :)
can i still go after contempt charges now?
I feel I have compiled enough evidence, (lying on statements, affidavit lies, and her (my exs) general course of action the last 15 months to prove the RO, was retaliatory.
Main question though!!!!!1
What does the psychologiat evaluation look like? How will it read? IE
"Father has sczophrenia and is danger to self and all others he emails"
"Mother is historonic and is obviously not been geuine"
"Child should be with xxx parent xxxxx amount of time,"
Get my drift! Just wonderin, my books dont say what it looks like!
and one more thing ;)
Does the fact that my two older brothers have left the meddling grandmother out of their lives and forbid the meddling grandmother from seein her 2 other gran children play any part in meddling granmahs help in alienating this kiddo of mine from me? or A good lawyer will know how to SPIN" it!